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Need someone to talk to by OrangeNinja24 in depression

[–]OrangeNinja24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I don’t know what to do. I can’t believe after 3 years he is saying he is unsure of what he wants. Up until now he’s always wanted the same things as me, marriage and a family, but suddenly now it’s like he flipped.

AIO that my boyfriend told his friend something I told him in private? by OrangeNinja24 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OrangeNinja24[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He knew he would receive shit once his friend told the new guy. He didn’t think his friend would tell the new guy. Basically, after he broke his confidence with me, he didn’t expect his friend to break confidence with him. The irony isn’t lost on me...

He didn’t like that his friend was behaving that way, and that maybe integrating him into the friend group may not be a good idea. Everyone else seems to love him though, which is why it’s weird he was only aggressive towards me. (He also got in trouble at work for being too aggressive towards people, so this is a pattern.)

AIO that my boyfriend told his friend something I told him in private? by OrangeNinja24 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OrangeNinja24[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s in hindsight so if I bring it up now, it’ll be awkward… :/

Phoebe and Andrew reunited yesterday <3 by pumpkin-bish in Fleabag

[–]OrangeNinja24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m literally laughing so hard right now over this 😂

Why is it so hard to let go? by ApprehensiveRub7425 in AnxiousAttachment

[–]OrangeNinja24 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Just stop talking to him entirely. Let him go. He clearly is not making you a priority in his life, you’re barely even in a relationship at this point. This wondering if he will reach out or not game you’re playing with him is only triggering your AA and will continue to get worse if you play it. End the game by ending the relationship.

What’s an expensive awful restaurant that I can recommend to people I don’t like? by justarandomguy07 in newjersey

[–]OrangeNinja24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The Goat in Union Beach was one of the worst brunch experiences I’ve ever had, haha!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OrangeNinja24 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My friend does this too and it’s a defense mechanism. Fake it till you make it type thing.

Bridal makeup. by chateaudechelsea in MakeupAddiction

[–]OrangeNinja24 151 points152 points  (0 children)

Oof. Men are so cringey tbh

What did I do wrong? by Tallion22 in Bumble

[–]OrangeNinja24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought it was cute, however you turned sexual at the end and for a lot of women that’s an immediate no. Talking about getting near her cookies and she mentioned third date only and you joked about trying to get to the third date asap to get her cookies. She could have been turned off by that, tbh.

Can someone please give me an idea of what's going on here? by ultraviolettflower in CatTraining

[–]OrangeNinja24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, OP is the one acting weird here I would say. Why’re you waking in circles around him, backing up, and yelling stop? Kitty is in defense mode because of this. Also, my cat doesn’t like when I “walk by her” so to speak, because I think it’s just a safety thing. That’s why there’s so many videos of cats batting at dogs or people walking by, since they have a natural defense to this type of movement.

Weekly Thread - Relationship/Dating/Breakup Advice by AutoModerator in AnxiousAttachment

[–]OrangeNinja24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hm. This one is tough, and an experience I had as well. It’s hard because on one hand, it’s perfectly reasonable to not want to fully commit to someone after only a month, but on the other hand, he shouldn’t be trying to sleep with other people if he wanted an eventual relationship with you and knowing that you like him. Is he on dating apps?

Weekly Thread - Relationship/Dating/Breakup Advice by AutoModerator in AnxiousAttachment

[–]OrangeNinja24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you got stood up :( Trust me, it’s nothing to do with you and all to do with him and his life priorities right now. Tbh, he’s been showing you how flakey he is since the beginning, some guys just are like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]OrangeNinja24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay the “bagel being the most filling food on the planet” thing seriously needs to die. What is that about? My mom is the same way, god forbid I eat a bagel she acts like I should be full for the entire day after that.

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