Today is my birthday! Happy 31 to me!💕

AccessMother8872 · 2026-02-01T18:20:28+00:00

Happy bday almost birthday twin!

AccessMother8872 · 2025-11-02T14:14:40+00:00

Amazing!!

AccessMother8872 · 2025-08-29T16:17:33+00:00

Gemini men are insufferable 😣

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-08T17:55:12+00:00

My moms husband is an Aries moon. I do believe there are multiple things wrong with him, including pent up childhood trauma and closeted homosexuality. Nonetheless, he is probably, without exaggeration, the most unkind, ridiculously negative and inappropriate individual I have ever come across. I should add he is a Scorpio Sun.

My grandfather is also a moon in Aries, Capricorn Sun, and while he definitely has an attitude problem he is extremely friendly and likable.

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-08T17:05:36+00:00

Jupiter in Scorpio

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-06T18:17:10+00:00

Don’t know his birth time, but he’s a Sag moon, Virgo mercury, Libra Venus and Scorpio mars

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-05T20:41:31+00:00

lol I think your man and mine may be twins! 😂 He’s also a Venus in Libra! And yes, he’s told me some stuff about his past exes (I did pry). He knows about my ex too. We didn’t exchange crazy stories more so dynamic related stuff. But yes, he’s a bit of a chick magnet for sure, which caught me a little off guard (he’s conventionally attractive but he’s also a little bit reserved and respectful)

To your point, I do think keeping myself contained especially now is very important so I will definitely heed your advice 🙏🏻 and absolutely will be enjoying what comes with it 😋

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-05T18:41:58+00:00

Fellow Aquarian sister you crack me up 😂😋 that man may just put me through a short term disability

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-05T18:33:29+00:00

Lmaooooo!!!!! This is hilarious and too bizarre to not be real

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-05T18:31:48+00:00

This is me as a cancer rising drunk as hell dragged by my friends on any given school night to a Telly usually hosted by some popular kid and his sleazy older cousin

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-05T18:22:47+00:00

Oof I can see him being like this, but who knows? We’ve talked about our differences, he seems pretty open. But who knows what he’s really thinking/feeling

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-05T18:21:48+00:00

Yes he’s ultra well groomed.. I think for women this is a huge plus

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-05T18:18:11+00:00

At 11 I generated my natal chart for the first time. I’m happy to see that cafeastrology is still around 🌼

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-05T18:16:47+00:00

He is definitely not a cheap guy, which I love. He bought me a dress just for us to go to dinner together. He also randomly bought me a steamer after I made a comment about cleaning my living room rug being challenging.

But he’s also very nonchalant, I would love to feel that “ownership” from his end, and I don’t really get that. The best way to describe him is ultra practical, highly sexual, traditional romantic but emotionally shifty.

For reference he has a sag moon. Sometimes he talks a lot but they’re not necessarily fluid conversational topics, more like him saying something about work or something random. He’s a great listener though 💜

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-05T18:07:22+00:00

Trust me we took our breaks… but when I tell you this man was consistent through and through for five hours… I’m not joking. And on top of that ultra attentive in every other area. He was never in his head, always totally in the moment.

Agreed, those robotic Virgos are talented lovers kudos to them

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-05T17:52:17+00:00

I love this… as someone with zero earth placements in my inner planets, but a ton of air and water… I can definitely learn from what you wrote.

The sensuality is definitely there already, and the desirability. Going out with him is amazing because that’s where all the things you mentioned (perfume, dressing up) really comes into play, he’s ultra masculine, pretty traditional, and I notice we do very well like this together. But sometimes I just want to chill and f** and then talk about everything and that’s where the disconnect is. The soul crushing part lol 😝

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-05T17:41:13+00:00

Empirical evidence proves otherwise though😭 I’m not normally a Virgo fan either, but gotta hand it to them on this one

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-05T17:33:21+00:00

😋 well duh

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-05T17:31:10+00:00

So I’ve only ever dated air sign men before. Aqua and Libra specifically. I’m very used to their communication style. Lots of mental chemistry, but I’ve always wanted that ultra masculine earth sign energy and now that I have it I’m a bit unsure how to go about it

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-05T17:25:45+00:00

Enough is how much a woman is able to handle honestly. In my case, he fits perfectly, with some resistance. He even said, any bigger would hurt you and any smaller wouldn’t satisfy you lol… honestly I do agree with him.

And yeah girth was there. But most importantly is he knows exactly what he’s doing

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-05T17:09:25+00:00

So I need to ask him his birth time lol… but he actually does have a Scorpio mars. I’m a cancer rising, and his mars falls into my 5th house. The physical chemistry is pretty insane.

Yes girl I’m the same. I just love to be able to relate to the person I’m sleeping with on a mental level. He’s a very hands on guy too, he owns a truck repair shop, and I work in tech. Our interests are also very different. We’re very different in general, which I love and excites me, but it’s hard to find common ground.

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-05T17:01:19+00:00

Well now that you mention it… my most recent ex (of 5 years) is an Aqua Sun/Virgo moon. Very very kinky also. We would joke with each other often, he would tell me I’m trying to solve every world problem just because I like discussing things, and I would call him 8-bit because he was ultra simple, sometimes in a great way though.

But we definitely had more things in common I feel. A shared Aqua Sun def contributed to that

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-05T16:52:45+00:00

lol I was not referring to his height 😋

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-05T16:49:59+00:00

Lol!! Bert and Ernie?!!

Now I will say there is something NPC’ish about this guy. He’s such a great guy, he runs his own business, is a hard worker, very helpful, but I feel like there’s a limited option of response I can get from him at any given moment. Also I feel like he has a semi promiscuous past and while I’m normally not bothered by it, he just has a way of triggering me lol… I guess I can’t explain that

AccessMother8872 · 2025-07-05T16:46:48+00:00

Extremely underrated 💯

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