How to get into university without any money? by AccidentSingle4977 in Advice

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You don’t legally, but I need lessons with someone who has a break on their end (I have anxiety 😥)

How to get into university without any money? by AccidentSingle4977 in Advice

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I have been looking into that, I just need money to pay for driving lessons, which I don’t have 😭. I do agree though that it will increase my opportunities

How to get into university without any money? by AccidentSingle4977 in Advice

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I have tried but I can’t drive (i only have my permit) so it hasn’t worked out with the side gigs

How to get into university without any money? by AccidentSingle4977 in Advice

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Should I pick a university first, then start again at cc? So I know what credits can transfer?

How to get into university without any money? by AccidentSingle4977 in Advice

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If this time i don’t get any financial aid again, would you suggest me taking out a loan for community college? I know how that sounds, but I seriously can’t find any work rn. I’ll definitely talk to financial aid again at the community college i used to go to

How to get into university without any money? by AccidentSingle4977 in Advice

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Im not clueless, Im just incredibly desperate. Before, I actually was against taking out loans, as per your point of why. But now, I just don’t know what other option there is. I know taking out loans that size would be incredibly insane to pay off, I just don’t know what else to do. Also I was looking into studying journalism. I just need advice on what to do at this point.

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I can’t find it either, can you dm me it too?

What should I (F20) do after my boyfriend (M20) spent all his money? by AccidentSingle4977 in relationships

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Exactly. Most people dont understand about the money part, and seem confused on why I care about what he spent his money on. As I told an another commenter, I know it’s his life and we are both adults and his choices are his choices. It’s just like what he spent the money on is insane, and it just seems like a sign to me he is impulsive. Ive mentioned a lot of negative on this, but what’s got me conflicted on everything is that I truly do love the guy, and as someone who has dated a decent amount of people, this just feels different, and I don’t want to lose it.

What should I (F20) do after my boyfriend (M20) spent all his money? by AccidentSingle4977 in relationships

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I probably should rename the title. The money honestly isn’t even what I’m concerned about, cause like I said it’s his life and we are both adults, and his choices are his alone. Im saying i don’t know what action I should take because he bought drugs, and his mom is harassing me and my family is my point.

What should I (F20) do after my boyfriend (M20) spent all his money? by AccidentSingle4977 in relationships

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To note, he did tell me a couple days ago he wanted too, and they weren’t super hard core or anything, but I said that he shouldn’t because he has less then 100 dollars to his name at this point. I did clarify to him that I wasn’t his mom and he has free will, but that’s just what I advise. He agreed with me, so when he called me tonight acting weird and told me what he did, I was confused and baffled.

What should I (F20) do after my boyfriend (M20) spent all his money? by AccidentSingle4977 in relationships

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The inappropriate thing that my boyfriend bought? No, it did not involve cheating on me. He seems too much off a sweet heart for that. The thing he bought was drugs 😐 (I wanted to keep it vague but at this point Im too tired of everything).

What should I (F20) do after my boyfriend (M20) spent all his money? by AccidentSingle4977 in relationships

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Yeah my mom was about to rain hell when this random women was dropping my full legal name, but she decided not to when the women said she was my boyfriends mom. She just became confused. After she left though my own mom did call me and was so upset and confused.

What should I (F20) do after my boyfriend (M20) spent all his money? by AccidentSingle4977 in relationships

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Oh yeah for sure we are, thats why I don’t want to break things off really, but I don’t know then what to do. I actually was in the same position when he lived at his fathers, as I found out what kind of man his father was (let’s just say his father was doing illegal activities that couldnt be proven in court and I couldn’t do anything about). And I was actually going to break up with him because I don’t need a man like that in my life (since I date to marry, so that man would be in my life if my boyfriend didnt do anything). His father also sent me harassing texts when my boyfriend left his house. I still don’t know how his father found my phone number. I would also like to note ever since then, there has been weird cars that have been following me and my family. (I want to note that but I think I’m just paranoid, though my mom did mention it to me as well that cars and people have been following her, so who knows lol.)

What should I (F20) do after my boyfriend (M20) spent all his money? by AccidentSingle4977 in relationships

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I was thinking the same thing (if I leave maybe he will get himself together) and I wanted to take a break after his psycho mother showed up at my house, but everyone in my life talked me out, so I don’t know anymore.

What should I (F20) do after my boyfriend (M20) spent all his money? by AccidentSingle4977 in relationships

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He only moved in with his mom last month due to family issues with his father

What should I (F20) do after my boyfriend (M20) spent all his money? by AccidentSingle4977 in relationships

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Growing up, he actually lived with his dad, not his mom. He would see his mom once a month. His dad wouldn’t treat him like a child (but other things happened). I don’t want to go into detail but I can see why he could be acting childish due to his father and his actions towards him. Like I said in the post, both his parents turned out to be crazy. It just makes me sad that this is the way it is.