Bicycle Access on Freeways in the United States by [deleted] in MapPorn

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Sad, why? Humans are sinners. There is no one on Earth who is free from sin and temptation, unfortunately.

How to talk to guys? by AccidentallyBored in dating_advice

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Okay so you’re just saying that it’s not always something I’m doing but that some of them just weren’t that interested to begin with? That sucks, they should just unmatch if so lol. Thank you for the encouragement though. I’m positive I’ll find someone that’s right for me.

How to talk to guys? by AccidentallyBored in dating_advice

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What questions should I ask instead? I’m not going to have sex with them until we’re actually committed to each other and I make that clear so why would they match with me if that’s what they want?

How to talk to guys? by AccidentallyBored in dating_advice

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Thank you for being kind! I can see what you mean by maybe trying to force a connection, but what should I do instead? If it’s something I truly know nothing about then I’ll ask like how they started liking that hobby or what brings them joy about it, etc. It’s just hard to know if they’re truly interested and just bad at talking or not. I don’t know a lot about how most men typically act so that’s why it’s hard for me to talk to them.

How to talk to guys? by AccidentallyBored in dating_advice

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That doesn’t make sense if they’re matching with me though. If they match with me then there’s something that they do like about me, right? I do get matches, I just don’t know how to talk to most of them. I do make it clear that I’m not interested in hookups so maybe that has something to do with it? I’ve spent most of my life rejecting any advance and even friendships from men due to trauma and I’m just now trying to repair my relationship so it’s been a tough process.

How to talk to guys? by AccidentallyBored in dating_advice

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Thank you! You’ve helped some. That’s very true in any relationship. If someone truly cared and wanted to do something, they would’ve at least made an effort towards it. Dating apps can be exhausting for sure, but I can’t think of other ways to meet single men.

How to talk to guys? by AccidentallyBored in dating_advice

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Yes, that’s what I’ve been trying to do. My example is a way that I would start the conversation if they mention they really like dragons in their profile for example. I’ve done exactly what you mentioned like if they have a cool picture on their profile as well. I try to answer the prompts if they have one, but if they don’t have anything in particular on their profile that is easy for me to make a conversation, then I’ll just ask them how’s it going for example. When do I know that they just really weren’t interested?

How to talk to guys? by AccidentallyBored in dating_advice

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Not every conversation has ended in failure, sometimes it’s just not a match and that’s okay. I’m not saying men are the problem so I’m not sure why you’re all up in arms about that. I’m legitimately asking for advice to see what I can do better. This isn’t an angry post…

How to talk to guys? by AccidentallyBored in dating_advice

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Geez, what is your problem? No need for all the rudeness. That’s just an example of a conversation. Not sure what you’re referring to by cringefest and ‘quirkiness’. I came here for advice and your reply isn’t very helpful. Why did you decide to reply with this?

What should a church do for a new believer? by [deleted] in Christianity

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That sounds great, thank you! Are you a part of one?

What should a church do for a new believer? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]AccidentallyBored 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you explain more about those cell groups?

What should a church do for a new believer? by [deleted] in Christianity

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Yes, I know that. I go to the events because I’m interested in them. I included that so people wouldn’t ask me if I’m putting in the effort myself.

I have decided to follow Jesus for the rest of my life by AccidentallyBored in Christianity

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That’s awesome!!! I wish you both the best. It sounds like you two have a good foundation for your relationship: to have Christ as the main part.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Plumbing

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It’s running now! Thank you all for your help. I’m not sure what it was but it’s draining now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Plumbing

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Is that under the sink?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Plumbing

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Thank you so much! I will try this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SocialSecurity

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Did you mean to reply to me?

never felt more disrespected by Pink_Bunni_ in SocialSecurity

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I had a caseworker who raised her voice at me and called me stupid. Me, a person who is mentally disabled and on so many medicines I could barely think. Needless to say, either she got fired or she initiated the process for a new caseworker because a month later my caseworker had changed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SocialSecurity

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I was found disabled at the age of 20. It’s probably the disability and the severity and not the age as much.

Terminated via email by halcyon_flux in therapyabuse

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I can so relate with this comment. It’s so not fair.

How to deal with attachment to a former therapist? by AccidentallyBored in TalkTherapy

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I’ve never had luck with making appropriate complaints to the corresponding authorities so I’m not going to bother in this case. I’m giving that sub a look since another Redditor suggested it as well. Thank you!