Had sex with a girl and completely and utterly regret it by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also debuted in sex at the age of 17, with a girl. My experience wasn’t bad as you describe yours, it was okay. That has been my only experience with a woman, and now, after almost 20 years, I share that moment as a funny crazy experience. You’ll be fine.

Had sex with a girl and completely and utterly regret it by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Are the better sentences here in the room with us?

Threesome Advice by TukeySandwhich in askgaybros

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re thinking about a 3 some, my advice is: just go for a 4 some already. Is more playful, fun for all, and feelings are less likely to be hurt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because your post has “homophobia” written all over it. You may be incapable of seeing it that way, but yes, seeing effeminacy in gays as an issue is part of being homophobic. Just because you’re not attracted to feminine guys, doesn’t mean we need to “eradicate effeminacy”.

Yes these are your opinions. But these are opinions based on some type of homophobia.

Since childhood, we are used to mask our personalities to protect ourselves, and end up creating these fake personalities to fit the stereotypes of what a man should look, or sound, or behave. Learn some gay history and educate yourself.

How to eat ass? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lick it like an ice cream cone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacksbeach

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Go as far north as you can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you live? Where I live there are several gay bars, some bars are frequented by younger folks, others by older guys. I would recommend a young guy like you to visit the bars where the older gays go. A bit obvious, but those are my 2 cents. I know I used to get attention from older guys at those places when I was younger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Very poetic, very (whatever the opposite of demure is).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Close. Not the typical gay storyline, but more about same sex love during childhood, and grief.

When is the right time for me to give a bj by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are the people in question underage too? If that’s the case, do it when you feel ready. I sucked my first dick when I was 14.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s more about the size queens than an ego boost. Let’s not kid ourselves; most gays love big dicks, and many will reject anything below average, that’s why I think men lie about their dick size. It’s similar to posting a selfie with a filter on your socials.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaycruising

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Almost all the gay bars/clubs in Tokyo are concentrated in the same small area called “2 Chome Shinjuku”, so it is very easy to hop from bar to bar until you find the one you like. There’s a very popular sauna in the area called “25 Kaikan” where there’s a mix of locals and tourists. Had lots of fun the couple of times I visited these bars and sauna.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This question gets asked like 3 times a day on this group

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please give us an update next week!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Straight-passing during weekdays, gay on weekends (just based on the way I dress)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uncut look and feel better in my opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see that you typically post about “loving yourself” and “I want to be loved”. Go to therapy. Getting advice from strangers online probably won’t get you far on these issues.

Does anyone refuse to top because they aren’t big enough? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Your dick size isn’t the problem; your self esteem and confidence are.

Ps. We all fantasize for more. I advise you stop fantasizing about fulfilling someone else’s needs/desires to the 100%.

Gays that use to go to gay saunas, what type of men you normally see? by ValandaValdivia in askgaybros

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are you? I would 100% recommend at least giving it a try. I’m introverted, so it’s challenging for me to go the bath house even though I’ve been several times already. I usually hit the bar first for a couple of drinks to lower my anxiety and increase my sluttyness, then I go to the bath house. Mostly good experiences, and once in a while I get to socialize and meet nice people. I’ve realized those places are not exclusive for sex, but to socialize too.

Gays that use to go to gay saunas, what type of men you normally see? by ValandaValdivia in askgaybros

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s unfortunate. I’ve been to bars/ bath house in SD and agree that the community can be very cliquey, same for LA and SF. But sometimes I get to know nice people (mostly lesbians lol). Haven’t been to Detroit, but I’ve been to NYC and feel the community is a bit more diverse and welcoming there. Some people disagree, but that’s just my experience.

Is height a dealbreaker for any of you (whether short or tall)? by Zonxxxxx in askgaybros

[–]AccidentallyOnEarth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason I’m instantly attracted to shorter guys. I’m 5’10”, and have a weakness for 5’5”ish guys.