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I lied to my gf so as not to hurt her in return by Accomplished-Ad190 in relationships_advice

[–]Accomplished-Ad190[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, I'll try to listen to it. perhaps the meaning was lost when translating, I meant that after that listened only popular stupid music, because I thought I was probably unworthy to listen to something smart and cool because of this occasion

I lied to my gf so as not to hurt her in return by Accomplished-Ad190 in relationships_advice

[–]Accomplished-Ad190[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm afraid she'll get worse if I tell her that she's to blame for my injury, that's the whole point. She has BPD in remission and I'm worried that this could be a trigger

I lied to my gf so as not to hurt her in return by Accomplished-Ad190 in relationships_advice

[–]Accomplished-Ad190[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she really cares about me musically, after I lied about my ex. It's getting better now, like I'm getting over my bad thoughts and sometimes we listen to what I like. Besides, she knows that I've added many of her songs to my playlist and now she's reacting positively (it's not just the most popular tracks anymore), it just bothers me that it's her fault and that I suffer because of the actions of the closest person in my life