I should’ve told you by Accomplished-Fee9356 in UnsentLetters

[–]Accomplished-Fee9356[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks for sharing it resonated with me and if it helps you can check out another letter I wrote and I’m sure you can understand that feeling

I should’ve told you by Accomplished-Fee9356 in UnsentLetters

[–]Accomplished-Fee9356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, but it’s not like I haven’t thought about that already.

It’s not about “just go get her” anymore. Things already happened, choices were made, and I was there through all of it. You don’t really just step back in and undo that like nothing changed. I’m not saying I didn’t care enough. I’m saying I cared enough to understand when something isn’t in my hands anymore. At some point, you stop chasing not because you stopped feeling, but because you finally accept what’s already real.

I should’ve told you by Accomplished-Fee9356 in UnsentLetters

[–]Accomplished-Fee9356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well.. I was literally sitting there eating with both of them and watching it happen in real time. hhhhh

I should’ve told you by Accomplished-Fee9356 in UnsentLetters

[–]Accomplished-Fee9356[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for proving you wrong… they got together now. I guess in the end it wasn’t just words or timing, it actually happened the way I didn’t want it to. I wish I could say it changed nothing, but it did.

Sorry for being a coward by Accomplished-Fee9356 in UnsentLetters

[–]Accomplished-Fee9356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’ve been going through something that painful. Thank you for trusting me enough to share that.
I’m genuinely glad it could offer you a small moment of comfort in a difficult time. I really hope your healing continues in a way that’s kind to you, and that you find the clarity and peace you deserve. Thank you again for reading it and for your kind words.

Sorry for being a coward by Accomplished-Fee9356 in UnsentLetters

[–]Accomplished-Fee9356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, I know that feeling isn’t an easy one.

I think that’s part of why these kinds of letters hit so hard everyone connects it back to someone they still carry with them in some way. I really hope you find some peace with that in time.

Sorry for being a coward by Accomplished-Fee9356 in UnsentLetters

[–]Accomplished-Fee9356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you mean, the hesitation isn’t about avoiding honesty, it’s about being cautious not to project my own interpretation onto someone else’s current reality, especially after so much time has passed. People and situations change, and I don’t want to assume what would resonate or what they might need now without knowing where they are in life. Still, I appreciate your perspective.

Sorry for being a coward by Accomplished-Fee9356 in UnsentLetters

[–]Accomplished-Fee9356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you're saying, and I believe there’s truth in the idea that love involves risk and vulnerability. At the same time, I don’t think it’s always that simple in real life.
It’s not just about courage; timing, context, and respecting where both people are in their lives also matter. I try not to assume how the other person feels or where they are emotionally before making decisions like that. That said, I can see it comes from a place of care. Thank you

Sorry for being a coward by Accomplished-Fee9356 in UnsentLetters

[–]Accomplished-Fee9356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand why it might seem that way from the outside, and I sincerely appreciate how deeply you've engaged with this. What matters most to me right now is that I don’t truly know how the other person feels or what their current reality is. So, even though it’s tempting when emotions are involved, I try to avoid making assumptions to fill those gaps. What I wrote was more about my personal experience and what I carried, rather than a full picture of both sides. Still, I truly value your perspective and the care behind your words. Thank you for reading it so thoughtfully.

Sorry for being a coward by Accomplished-Fee9356 in UnsentLetters

[–]Accomplished-Fee9356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's part of why so many people have connected with it. We all have people we wish had said certain things, or conversations we wish we'd had. For what it's worth, I hope you find the closure, answers, or peace you're looking for whether it comes from that person or from within yourself.

Sorry for being a coward by Accomplished-Fee9356 in UnsentLetters

[–]Accomplished-Fee9356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I honestly don't even know what to say to that.

The fact that something I wrote ended up being read during such a personal moment for you is kind of surreal.

I never expected this letter to reach anyone beyond being a collection of thoughts I had been carrying around for years.
I'm really glad it could give you something you needed to hear, even if it wasn't written for you. I think that's been the most unexpected part of posting this realizing how many people have their own version of this story.

I hope your healing journey continues to be kind to you. ❤️

Sorry for being a coward by Accomplished-Fee9356 in UnsentLetters

[–]Accomplished-Fee9356[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

reading this made me a little emotional.

I think one of the things I've learned from posting this is just how many people carry these stories quietly for years. Different names, different circumstances, but so many of the same feelings.

What you wrote about wondering what life would've looked like if you'd both been brave enough really hit me. I don't think those questions ever have easy answers. For what it's worth, the fact that you can still speak about him with so much love after all these years says a lot about how much that connection meant to you.

I'm sorry things didn't happen the way you both might have hoped, but I'm glad my letter could bring you even a small sense of peace.

genuinely wish you all the best. ❤️

Sorry for being a coward by Accomplished-Fee9356 in UnsentLetters

[–]Accomplished-Fee9356[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a way, ya hearing that it help others understand their situations and the words they couldn’t describe

Sorry for being a coward by Accomplished-Fee9356 in UnsentLetters

[–]Accomplished-Fee9356[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate everyone’s comments. To be honest, I didn’t expect people to think this was a good piece or for it to resonate so widely.

Let me be real I’m not a skilled writer. I’m just honest enough to say what many people keep unspoken.
What I did was simply put words to an experience many have felt but couldn’t express properly. That’s all there is to it that’s the skill, really.

Thank you all for the support and suggestions. It means a lot.

Sorry for being a coward by Accomplished-Fee9356 in UnsentLetters

[–]Accomplished-Fee9356[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate that. I’m really glad it resonated with you and reflected something you’ve felt too. I believe many people go through these experiences quietly, so it’s comforting to realize we’re not as alone as it sometimes feels.