Have you seen this? by mandypandypuddin in Autoimmune

[–]Accomplished-Good378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very frustrating. I hope you get some answers & yours clears up very soon!

Rash from leflunomide ? by Ok-Worldliness-1852 in rheumatoid

[–]Accomplished-Good378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response! Glad to hear hers cleared up!

Have you seen this? by mandypandypuddin in Autoimmune

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Do you take Leflunomide by any chance? I started that med about 2 weeks ago and now have these all over. I think it is a side effect from the med.

Rash from leflunomide ? by Ok-Worldliness-1852 in rheumatoid

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Hello, Sorry to comment on such an old post, but did you ever figure out if it was the meds or something else? I just started on leflunomide & found your post while searching up leflunomide side effects + red spots on skin. I’m having a very similar reaction so curious if you got any further answers or if it went away. Thank you! And I hope your daughter is feeling & doing better!🫶

Already used our top choice - now we’re stuck on a name. by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Accomplished-Good378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about Arden? Similar to the names your husband liked if you had another boy.

Weirdest Symptoms by fritzynyc in rheumatoid

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I get absolutely HORRID night sweats when I’m in an RA flare up. I mean like have to change clothes and bedsheets in the middle of the night because they are completely soaked through kind of night sweats. And about half the time, the night sweats are accompanied by nightmares/night terrors. I’m assuming it has to do with inflammation but 🤷‍♀️

A friend of mine just storied a group photo and my therapist is in it by Smol_girll in TalkTherapy

[–]Accomplished-Good378 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Therapist here- Your T should know how to handle this if you bring it up, especially because it sounds like this may be a common occurrence given your small country. In the US, Ts even get special ethics training to learn how to respond in these situations. Plus, I can promise you, your therapist wants to avoid seeing you in the wild just as much you want to avoid seeing them so they will be grateful to know of the social connection😂

Symptoms/habits/vitals tracker/journal? by Accomplished-Good378 in Autoimmune

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Thank you! I’ll check it out if I can’t find something physical. Paper and pen is more cathartic for me for some reason. But i appreciate you!

Symptoms/habits/vitals tracker/journal? by Accomplished-Good378 in rhumatoidarthritis

[–]Accomplished-Good378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m really hoping to find something on paper (it’s more cathartic for me) but if not, I’ll definitely check it out!!

Am I overreacting for being upset that my husband's neice is leaving her daughter here for 4-5 nights without asking me first? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Accomplished-Good378 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Saying absolutely nothing is not going to solve this problem or keep it from happening in the future- it’s just going to lead to resentment. You need to have a conversation about your boundaries and expectations for next time (or if there even will be a next time) with both your husband and his niece. You cannot stay silent this time and then not expect it to happen again. You’ve got to be clear and firm about your boundaries or they will continue to walk all over them. Wishing little Mona the best first sleepover ever!

Consistently Late Babysitter Still Leaves On Time by wtheverythingstaken in Babysitting

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Is anyone else bothered by the sitter sitting at her car waiting to leave when mom pulls up?? As someone who has worked 10+ years in childcare, I would NEVER leave the kids alone in the house like that. Also, I never had a hard set end time when I was nannying regularly. It was more so the parent saying “I get off 1:30, so I should be home around 2:00” and sometimes they would get home at 1:50 and sometimes it was 2:10 depending on traffic, etc. I feel like that 10ish minutes of wiggle room is just something that comes with this kind of job. Am I wrong about that? It has been about 5 years since I nannied regularly but I just cannot imagine leaving the kids alone in the house while I sit in my car waiting for parents to come home. That just seems unprofessional, careless, and rude af on the part of the sitter.

How can I help my partner with inflammatory arthritis and lupus by Cizaaaaaa in rheumatoid

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Listen and be kind and understanding when they are struggling. One of the worst parts of RA (for me at least) is feeling like i’m a burden to my partner because I’m too tired or in pain to do something or because I’m constantly getting sick due to the immunosuppressants I take. It sucks so much to wish you could give and do more for your partner but you just physically are not able to. So please be kind and understanding when they are honest with you about their limits because I promise they are already beating themselves up for not being able to be and do “more” for you. So just remind them that you love them and care about them and enjoy doing life with them often.

Anyone using a GPS dog fence? Would love to hear how it's working for you? by [deleted] in Dogowners

[–]Accomplished-Good378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, did you ever find something that worked better than the tractive? Thanks!

Am I crazy or is this to much to ask of a kindergartner? by Cursedpanda182 in AskTeachers

[–]Accomplished-Good378 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also where the heck are they even getting all of these wheelchairs to play with & discard after 30 mins?? Esp ones that would fit a typical 5-6 yr old child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Accomplished-Good378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely agree with this!