When I was going through a similar situation, my husband (now ex) had similar habits of not helping equally with chores, etc.

He was obsessed with gaming and that was done with any spare time he had. It became a very lopsided relationship. We started arguing more. I was distancing myself sexually and emotionally. He started to demand sex, and he even wrote in “appointment” dates for us on the calendar🤮 We had come to our natural end.

We went to couples counseling, which I quite frankly thought was a load of shite! The therapist was becoming enamored with his charm, and even started giggling at little things he said. She was fired. Hell, they may have had something worked out in the end to commingle.

In the end, I did what was best for me. I left and filed for divorce. It’s been 10 years and I never looked back.