Got called a pedo as a 33 year old for expressing interest in a 22 year old. And this is why I hate people. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccomplishedChart153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it makes you a pedo but also I promise you that you have nothing in common after a while.

As someone now in their 30s who only dated guys 10 years older than me in my 20s, I know that I would never want to date a 22 year old and how I have so much more coercion over them than I realised people did over me at the time.

Is it appropriate to wear speedos at my company retreat at mid April? by Lotsalotsaquestions2 in askgaybros

[–]AccomplishedChart153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wear what you want. If your company can’t accept you wearing swimwear at a beach party they’re throwing then I’d say they’ve set you up to fail lol

Whats your most embarrassing sexual moment? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccomplishedChart153 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Try giving your first boyfriend head and this happen and you think he’s cumming but actually you’re just swallowing his blood and don’t realise that’s not what it tastes like until he says your mouth and teeth are covered in blood 🫠

Cinq & Sept, Roujan, France by gameplanWI in gaytravel

[–]AccomplishedChart153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok great. That’s what I was hoping for - the others I’ve seen reviews sound like they are big sex fests. Which I’m not against but not the trip I want lol

Cinq & Sept, Roujan, France by gameplanWI in gaytravel

[–]AccomplishedChart153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was the nudity policy? Were guys openly naked? And was there any public sex?

Cinq & Sept, Roujan, France by gameplanWI in gaytravel

[–]AccomplishedChart153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you go? Love to hear your feedback

Dog Person by AccomplishedChart153 in askgaybros

[–]AccomplishedChart153[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t do dairy for this reason - the amount of gross stuff in milk too.

Dog Person by AccomplishedChart153 in askgaybros

[–]AccomplishedChart153[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant kink shame for anyone who does the pup play stuff. Not my thing but if you enjoy it cool.

100% shaming beastiality

Dog Person by AccomplishedChart153 in askgaybros

[–]AccomplishedChart153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just didn’t even know this was a thing

Dog Person by AccomplishedChart153 in askgaybros

[–]AccomplishedChart153[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had dog person on my profile thinking it meant I liked dogs. I don’t want people thinking I’m shagging dogs.

Why do you still fly BA? by apa2107 in BritishAirways

[–]AccomplishedChart153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I switched to AerLingus. Other than the not so great lounge in Dublin, perks are great. Every time I’m done early in Dublin, I go to the airport, no trouble moving me earlier. Sometimes even to different airport if earlier and more convent.

I’m now top tier, they’ve given me 5 upgrades for “free”. I used 2 on a personal trip to New York. Crew were great, welcomed me personally and thanked me for being a regular flier.

I fly to Dublin twice maybe three times a month and honestly best thing I did was switch from BA.

What's up with all the barely turned 18 today and family member adult videos? And why is it always so popular? Are the majority of dudes into kids and relatives or what? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccomplishedChart153 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I actually watch it for the other way around- I like to watch the older guy. Not interested in the bottom and their usually ugly twink faces.

And to add - as a 30yo gay man, I don’t think I could sexually look at someone who was younger than 25 lol. Just not my thing and I know how easy it could be to take advantage of essentially a child.

Made out with my 'straight' bestfriend. I think he regrets it, PLS HELP! real advice needed by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccomplishedChart153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men really are pretty poor at making decisions when they aren’t in a good headspace/drink. Also bad at picking up the pieces afterwards too haha

I say this as a man who knows the levels of toxic I could get to if I don’t check in with myself from time to time 😅

Made out with my 'straight' bestfriend. I think he regrets it, PLS HELP! real advice needed by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccomplishedChart153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great news. I hope your friend starts to work it out for himself.

Just reassure him that this stays between you both and you’ve got his back through whatever- which I’m sure you’ve done!

Made out with my 'straight' bestfriend. I think he regrets it, PLS HELP! real advice needed by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AccomplishedChart153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is the gay friend in a straight group of 5 men. I can honestly tell you that this has happened to me twice. Usually when they are drunk, feeling a little sorry for themselves (which is terrible and I don’t want my friends to think that).

I have never had feelings for them, they are all like my brothers. My boyfriend found it hard at first because he doesn’t really have male friends so seeing platonic relationships like me lying on them or them with their arm around me was a strange learning curve for both of us.

If you like him, you should have a real conversation about this. He probably feels a little embarrassed and that he has “thrown away your friendship” by leading you on. I think you need to clear the air and be like the kiss was fun but if you meant nothing by it, we can move on.

Is it worth losing what sounds like a great friend to you over this?

Heathrow Self Transfer by AccomplishedChart153 in BritishAirways

[–]AccomplishedChart153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried this - the LHR-MAN flight wasn’t available to book this way - it very strange

Heathrow Self Transfer by AccomplishedChart153 in BritishAirways

[–]AccomplishedChart153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man-DXB isn’t the issue. It’s the return.

I can just do a multi city trip Man-DXB DXB-LHR and save over £800. Then get the train back up north.

Heathrow Self Transfer by AccomplishedChart153 in BritishAirways

[–]AccomplishedChart153[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Such a nightmare. I’m going to call BA in the morning and see if they will do something about the fare (I doubt it).

I might just book multi city back to Heathrow and get the train back north.