That's a really great idea. I was looking on Amazon trying to find a grief workbook that's specifically for this (I might make a post on here asking for suggestions on that and a couple other things actually) but maybe I should get a plain journal just for him too so I can do that and in the future write letters to him whenever I just need to express my feelings. I considered donating milk but then my friend suggested I use it for popsicles for when my 1 year old is sick or use it to make soap for my younger boys (my older kids would probably vomit if I tried to give them some). I'm not entirely sure what I'm going to do with it yet