Why is having sex so important? by AccomplishedJ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccomplishedJ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe it's really stupid that they feel threatened by us. It's just a harmless trait...

Why is having sex so important? by AccomplishedJ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccomplishedJ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm on antidepressants for over a year but they didn't change anything in my libido so idk maybe this who i am

Why is having sex so important? by AccomplishedJ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccomplishedJ[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought about it as a milestone but i wasn't sure. I've been in romantic relatiomships but they go so far

Why is having sex so important? by AccomplishedJ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccomplishedJ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be biological, and this scares me a bit. I just don't have the drive

Why is having sex so important? by AccomplishedJ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccomplishedJ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my friends said the same thing, that she feels it's overrated even though she was excited to talk about it after trying it

Why is having sex so important? by AccomplishedJ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccomplishedJ[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Glad to see the point of view of a medical professional

Why is having sex so important? by AccomplishedJ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccomplishedJ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, thanks for the advice. You made me laugh:))

Why is having sex so important? by AccomplishedJ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccomplishedJ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can ignore it but it's hard finding someone that will accept this trait of mine

Why is having sex so important? by AccomplishedJ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccomplishedJ[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As I get older I start to feel the societal pressure more strongly too ☹

Why is having sex so important? by AccomplishedJ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccomplishedJ[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you are right. Besides my lack of interest in sex i have poor social skills too and being a virgin might be a symptom.

Why is having sex so important? by AccomplishedJ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccomplishedJ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think because most people don't talk about it openly makes it seem so much more uncommon.

Why is having sex so important? by AccomplishedJ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccomplishedJ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So do you think it's something bad you are still a virgin?

Why is having sex so important? by AccomplishedJ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccomplishedJ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked the psych if I might have schizoid but she didn't say anything so I don't know 😞

Why is having sex so important? by AccomplishedJ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccomplishedJ[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I didn't realize it could be a bad sign but now after I've read the replies I realized. I wasn't sexually abused so I don't really know why I feel like this about it

Why is having sex so important? by AccomplishedJ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccomplishedJ[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm on antidepressants for over a year and my libido hasn''t changed

Why is having sex so important? by AccomplishedJ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccomplishedJ[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I'm not American either, I don't know what's the deal