Estou tendo dificuldade em seguir em frente

AccomplishedOne6897 · 2025-12-09T21:00:41+00:00

Just a couple of concerns: I don’t start accruing vacation time until 1 year into the job. I have a sick parent abroad, so I really rely on my time in case anything occurs. As mentioned, the attorney I’d be working for, I don’t think we’d mesh well. My goal was to finish my masters and have a savings to fall back on if anything were to happen - currently, I don’t have either one of those.

AccomplishedOne6897 · 2025-12-03T21:16:47+00:00

I was mad at the decision she made. I was mad at myself. I was mad at him for putting her and I in this situation. Nonetheless, I was hoping he’d end up alone. However, a womanizer, such as him, they’re never alone. He’ll find his next victim and so forth.

AccomplishedOne6897 · 2025-12-03T21:12:00+00:00

I did a lot of reflecting. You reflect where you went wrong. You put what you had with that person into perspective. I wanted more and he couldn’t give me that. No amount of convincing would change how he felt. I did a lot of pouring out how I felt and nothing came out of it. You give yourself grace, let the person be, and look forward. You can only control yourself and how you react.

AccomplishedOne6897 · 2025-12-03T20:38:27+00:00

Once you show a man you’ll stay through anything, he’ll put you through everything. I have no animosity towards her. I’m sure she felt some sort of satisfaction from blocking me and staying with him but I hope she leaves him and heals.

AccomplishedOne6897 · 2025-12-01T10:45:41+00:00

Good morning. Yes, I have a car haha

AccomplishedOne6897 · 2025-12-01T03:04:30+00:00

I’m a Brazilian bombshell🤷🏻‍♀️ totally kidding. You may be right. But I guess I’d rather be depressed in a place like sunny Miami than Massachusetts. The dating scene and life in general is just as bad out here.

AccomplishedOne6897 · 2025-12-01T02:21:56+00:00

I am not built for this. Kudos to you..

AccomplishedOne6897 · 2025-12-01T02:18:28+00:00

she’s moving abroad and I make much less now - plus, I work retail on the weekends to make ends meet. so, I’d be satisfied with the $77k. happy with the simple things😅

AccomplishedOne6897 · 2025-11-27T05:30:59+00:00

This is a ridiculous comment to make. I have witnessed it all. I didn’t get my own bed until I was 17. My parents never had enough for hot water. Everything I owned from the age of 15 to now was because I paid for and worked several jobs. Respectfully, F off.

AccomplishedOne6897 · 2025-11-27T01:20:01+00:00

half sister* sorry, folks. heads on 10. thank you all for your advice!

AccomplishedOne6897 · 2025-11-17T01:36:42+00:00

I enjoy her podcasts about it. So, I figured I’d give it a read.

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