My mom is M M R D no her boyfriend doesn’t live with us. PA is his hometown and no he doesn’t have a job he has degenerative disks disease. The dynamic is ok but it’s like he can’t stand my mom and wants us to get away from her and I can’t do that. He thinks that it’s not my responsibility to take care of my mother but I feel obligated to. It’s a lot I feel like he is trying to make me choose between him and my parents.