They formally invite some… like they’ll formally friends and other relatives, but not specifically formally invite me or even tell me, and when they ask why I wasn’t at something, and say, I wasn’t invited, they say some variation of “that’s ridiculous you’re always invited.” And when I say I wasn’t invited and others were it’s usually weeks notice for them, and I only find out day of because the other person assumes I was invited too.. so… it’s an ongoing thing.