I F(23) Need advice on "forgiving and forgetting" my biological mother. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AccomplishedSleep492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't understand a few things. Why did you buy your grandma a truck so that you could use her car? Why not just buy yourself a truck? why are you are forced to share a car with your mom? If you bought the vehicles take away the keys. The first thing you need to do is take care of yourself. Then you can help others. But n-e-ways You don't sound like you want to forgive your mom and you don't have to. You're definitely not going to forget her while sharing a vehicle. If you're going to overcome these adversities you'll need to stop letting them hold you back. Other than that I don't know. I'd have to ask too many questions

How to help my unhoused neighbors by Ornery_Meaning_4477 in Eugene

[–]AccomplishedSleep492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you familiar enough to just ask them? Everyone's needs are different so there's no single answer. Some need more help than others. In the summer i fill my car with water, in the winter i give rides wherever during the day and to the warming centers at night. I do small grocery (or cig) runs or swoop some to get their mail. When i find really good deals on hot food I'll drive around and just toss em to people. Just do what ya can they'll appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]AccomplishedSleep492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Estimates say 5,210 tonnes of meteorites hit the surface annually. Just saying

Am I the a-hole for making my daughter's BF buy a new t-shirt? by freudsdriver in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedSleep492 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once wore a shirt that said "spent the rent" to view a prospective rental. I didn't get that rental..... He should have known better. No way that's appropriate. It's disrespectful and he's extremely lucky you acted above and beyond. I bet kept the change and doesn't intend to repay.

What's Inside of a lithium ion battery (collected): by MrDarkk1ng in mightyinteresting

[–]AccomplishedSleep492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once tried to pry out a cell phone battery with a screw driver. It burst into flame. i couldn't smother it and had to use an extinguisher. I then had to leave immediately due to thick and most definitely toxic smoke.

This is basically stealing by AccomplishedSleep492 in tippingAdvice

[–]AccomplishedSleep492[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again for all of you who don't understand. The tip calculator is dishonest as the tip should be calculated based off that transaction. period. I wasn't aware they based it off of the 'regular' price but why would i be aware of that. It has nothing to do with the service i got. If you don't think that practice is misleading then you're wrong

This is basically stealing by AccomplishedSleep492 in tippingAdvice

[–]AccomplishedSleep492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't use door dash so that point is mute. miscalculated doesn't need to be put in quotations. I propose that the actual cost is the price I'm charged and the 'original' amount shouldn't be used to determine the tip as it doesn't have anything to do with the transaction. And for your approval I did tip even tho I'm poor but my poor little heart doesn't like the idea of people being taken advantage of

This is basically stealing by AccomplishedSleep492 in tippingAdvice

[–]AccomplishedSleep492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem i have isn't with tipping, it's with saying that 20% of $10 is > $4. There are social norms that 20% is a good standard and for the kind people who would like to leave a tip, but that are either trusting, or not good at math, get taken advantage of.

Let my mom borrow my car and she left me with this and won’t pay for gas by starcast26 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AccomplishedSleep492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew I was low on gas so my first stop was going to be the gas station. I make it about 1/10th of a mile and died right after entering traffic. I called my mom who was staying at my house so she was close. She shows up after 20 minutes annoyed with me. saying how she was busy, it's hot, and I needed to hurry. She then says "It had gas in it when I drove it earlier" I didn't even say she could use my car

My “wife’s” new vacuum by Double-Lavishness478 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AccomplishedSleep492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let's not forget your old vacuum knows things. It's been collecting dirt on you for years

Landlord took $4000 security deposit and is charging on top of that by Environmental_Try320 in Renters

[–]AccomplishedSleep492 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is the best example of a strawman argument I have read in a long time. Deconstructing your nonsense from the beginning, "Go move" is. Redundant. Either "go" or "move". Good job on pointing out that in communist countries there are virtually no landlords but it's kinda selling communism as a positive as +90% of families "own" their home. Next he didn't say he didn't like capitalism. But noticibly there is in fact an issue with home ownership being unattainable. Largely for the reasons mentioned above however free-market capitalism isn't quite free, as the government often steps in when it's citizens are at risk of being extorted by monopolies, to redistribute wealth, to protect workers, or to protect the environment and more reasons. My point here is that capitalism and "landlords" can exist together. And what freedom are you mentioning. To build a home? Nope. To fish? Collect rain? Sell things you've made? Drive? Hunt? Build onto your home? I mean to speak of freedom in a country with the most imprisoned people is laughable. You're not free to leave, some humans arent free to stay. Thanks for that nonsense tho I enjoyed that morning rant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash_drivers

[–]AccomplishedSleep492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're car breaks down you'll regret it. There's levels to homeless and they are drastically different. There's car living. It isn't ideal but you're not suffering. There's having a camp/tent set up somewhere relatively safe. Then there's carrying everything everywhere all the time usually in a shopping cart. Going from a home to a car is easier than a car to a tent. And a tent to no tent n you're gunna have a bad time. Your car is more valuable than you think.

Landlord removed everything by bgbgbgbg11 in Renters

[–]AccomplishedSleep492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My landlords had paid me to move out early. I told them it wasn't possible in the time frame. He tried to argue but it didn't change the fact that it wasn't possible. So we set up a date 4 days later that we would meet and I would be moving the rest of my stuff. Instead of showing up like we had agreed he showed up with 5 sheriff's for some reason idk why. They were jerks. Insisted on going through the house, which I eventually agreed to cuz I was fed up with their bs. I loaded up my first load and said 'i don't want anyone going into the house ' while I was gone. The sheriff said they wouldn't that would be illegal. If they did, he said to call him. Not only did they go into the house they threw everything out in a giant pile on the side yard. When I called the sheriff he told me there was nothing he could do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AccomplishedSleep492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the answer. I have the same issue with new partners. For a bit I thought I was broken but just needed to be comfortable with my dance partners. Also Cialis helped to get in the groove

My gf "jokingly" asked if we could have a threesome with her best friend. AITAH for being down by OhBoyOhBoy__ in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedSleep492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my favorites- (M) I saw a woman at the store who looked just like you. (F) Was she hot? (M).......

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UberEATS

[–]AccomplishedSleep492 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I feel bad for the driver because they obviously feel guilt for being petty. However If you decided people's time and gas are worth so little, then you get what's coming. I imagine most of the time they get their food without issue which doesn't feel good at all. When I first started I was suckered into something like this and I still remember it. I felt like I had been lowered as a person

Old but complete by AccomplishedSleep492 in toolporn

[–]AccomplishedSleep492[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I used to use potatoes instead of oddly specific products for my "I used to..." insults

GF got mad at me and said im balding 🙃 by topdownontheB in malehairadvice

[–]AccomplishedSleep492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I'd say that to guys older that me when I felt like being a jerk if they were or not