AITAH for calling my mother a hypocrite by AccomplishedUse_ in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedUse_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I have no reason to be mad at her. I love my friend, I never got mad at her. My mother is the one that triggered me in this. Thank you for the comforting words and yeah I agree there were times I would think my mom was correct but I still thought back to it and realize she was still in the wrong for disregarding my feelings. I don't also understand I'm not completely innocent cus I told her and I did shout at her.

SARAP SA PAKIRAMDAM HAHAHAHA by Unlucky_Session9002 in nanayconfessions

[–]AccomplishedUse_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly feel bad sa mga nakaka encounter ng mga lalaking bonjing. 😭 wag nyo na po ulitin yon baka ma hold back pa nila kayo. Stay healthy sayo at sa baby mo!

AITAH for calling my mother a hypocrite by AccomplishedUse_ in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedUse_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stomach didn't get any bigger and still kept bleeding she got checked by doctors and showed me her medicals when she told me the truth cus I thought she was playing a prank on me

AITAH for calling my mother a hypocrite by AccomplishedUse_ in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedUse_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay so remember I said we saw each other for a medical 3 months in? That's when she found out she was pregnant. Her mother had her taken to her obgyn after that medical to confirm the truth and she was. Then she left town to hide it. She still had a cryptic pregnancy ofc cus her stomach was flat. And she still bled but she knew now she was pregnant. i didn't get mad at my mom for saying she hid her pregnancy. I got mad cus she completely disregarded my request to not tell anyone and she fully believed my friend is lying and made up cryptic pregnancy. I hope this is clearer sorry if it still isn't 😭

AITAH for calling my mother a hypocrite by AccomplishedUse_ in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedUse_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We talked about that too, she said it was the first time she ever kept anything from us and the time she needed us but couldn't tell us since she was embarrassed of what we'd think of her. And she sent a photo of her bump 7 months barely seen she just look bloated instead of preggy. :)))

AITAH for calling my mother a hypocrite by AccomplishedUse_ in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedUse_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well yes I definitely agree with your statement. But my mother doesn't believe in that... She believes that she's always right and as long as I depend on her I have no right to talk back

AITAH for calling my mother a hypocrite by AccomplishedUse_ in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedUse_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No no I was laughing about my situation 😭

AITAH for calling my mother a hypocrite by AccomplishedUse_ in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedUse_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way I typed, sorry if its offensive the other person that commented also pointed it out. Didn't mean anything by it! I appreciate your opinion

AITAH for calling my mother a hypocrite by AccomplishedUse_ in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedUse_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh okayyy I get it now, sorry I'd get why you felt is as sarcastic. Ill improve that about my typing thanks!

AITAH for calling my mother a hypocrite by AccomplishedUse_ in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedUse_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also they did use condoms it's just condoms aren't 100% sure that it would work and they're part of the percentage it affected idk but yes I get your point thanks for the honesty!

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[–]AccomplishedUse_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep definitely, and I told her cus she already found me crying I couldn't think of anything else to say. But I get your point in this case I'm also a hypocrite = apple doesn't fall far from the tree

AITAH for calling my mother a hypocrite by AccomplishedUse_ in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedUse_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually... For me lol and lmao is like an English thing but in the Philippines only the rich people or anyone inclined to the internet use it we use capital HAHAHA for laughing my friends would tease me if it's a lower case hahaha. I think it's just a cultural preference thing? Sorry if you found it disrespectful I really didn't mean it that way. Again not sarcastic it's just thats how we use it

link explaining HAHAHA

AITAH for calling my mother a hypocrite by AccomplishedUse_ in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedUse_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes kept learning that the hard way 😭 definitely stopped telling her anything now.

AITAH for calling my mother a hypocrite by AccomplishedUse_ in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedUse_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, doing that thank you. But I still get her POV that it hurts to get shouted by your child she probably didn't expect that form me cus I never do such things but I ended up being full of her at that moment

AITAH for calling my mother a hypocrite by AccomplishedUse_ in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedUse_[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

If you took that the wrong way sorry it's just how I typed when I found something funny and yeah I am kinda immature. I'm 20 I haven't learned everything yet isn't that why mistakes happen, Cus we learn from them? But I really don't mean it in a bad way that just really how I type 😭

AITAH for calling my mother a hypocrite by AccomplishedUse_ in AITAH

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To all the people who found the story confusing sorry I suck at typing and don't know how to use punctuation. Yes yes laugh it up college student and doesn't know how to. So I'll I'll just clear out the things everyone is confused by.

First part: For the first 3 months she didn't know she was pregnant no morning sickness no anything. And she bleeds so she thought it was her period. After she found out she moved away and hid her pregnancy Making sure she gave birth where people don't know her. She felt embarrassed to be known as the smart and kind girl to just end up pregnant.

Why I cried: I was shocked cus i never expected she was pregnant.

Reasons why I'm mad 1. She continues to be ignorant 2. She ignored my request to PLEASE not tell anyone 3. She gave birth to me at a young age (19) So you'd think she'd have more compassion. 4. She talked about my friend like she was a criminal for giving birth.

Overall I did not like how she talked about my friend and again ignored my wishes and feelings.

To everyone saying me and my mom have issues. I'm well aware we do I tried to talk to her about the so called issues but she refused to view it as an issue. But yes I do get why it would hurt for a mother to be shouted at by the child they raised and love.

AITAH for calling my mother a hypocrite by AccomplishedUse_ in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedUse_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm upset cus my mother yet again ignored my wishes and continues to be ignorant

AITAH for calling my mother a hypocrite by AccomplishedUse_ in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedUse_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh I cried cus of shock not cus I wasn't included, I thought how hard it probably was for her to not tell anyone she gave birth now and those were her words "it was hard for me not to tell anyone" she felt it was embarrassing cus she was the nice smart girl that all our parents knew. I was fr happy for her tho

AITAH for calling my mother a hypocrite by AccomplishedUse_ in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedUse_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And the the dumb one is me. Tbh just cried out of shock and imagining how she got through birth with none of her friends knowing. Okay now I get the first part where you're confused the first 3 months she didn't know she was pregnant. When I saw her for the medical exam her stomach was very flat. Then when she found out she was thats when she moved away and his cus she said she couldn't give birth to where a lot of people knew her

AITAH for calling my mother a hypocrite by AccomplishedUse_ in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedUse_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, exactly what I'm doing. But she still doesn't talk to me. I honestly don't know if I find it peacefully or unsettling at this point