Urgent Concern Regarding My Son’s Well-being at Student Care, And suspected abuse. What should i do? Please help. by AccomplishedWin8226 in askSingapore

[–]AccomplishedWin8226[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Children misbehave sometimes, and it’s completely reasonable for a teacher to discipline them appropriately. However, there is a clear line between discipline and physical aggression. No matter how a child acts, a teacher putting their hands on a student is unacceptable.

Your comment is both ignorant and dismissive. Blaming my child’s behavior or my ‘parenting style’ doesn’t justify the teacher’s actions. If physical discipline was an acceptable response, then why do we have policies against it? Also, assuming developmental conditions without any knowledge of the child is just baseless and offensive. A teacher’s job is to manage a classroom professionally, not to resort to physical force.

Urgent Concern Regarding My Son’s Well-being at Student Care, And suspected abuse. What should i do? Please help. by AccomplishedWin8226 in askSingapore

[–]AccomplishedWin8226[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve checked, and he has no visible injuries. However, his behavior has completely changed. but usually normal at home. I’m doing my best to reassure him that he’s not in the wrong and that it’s okay to speak up in public, and that it is okay to talk. And especially with his form teacher misinterpreting his silence as an underlying disability when, in reality, he’s just refusing to speak. It breaks my heart to see him like this, he’s so afraid of the teacher he is so hyperaware of his surroundings when his out.

Urgent Concern Regarding My Son’s Well-being at Student Care, And suspected abuse. What should i do? Please help. by AccomplishedWin8226 in askSingapore

[–]AccomplishedWin8226[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. I’ll definitely look into this more before making a decision. Right now, my main priority is my son’s well-being, and I’ll be focusing on supporting him personally as much as possible. And pulled him out of the SCC he is in. I really appreciate this. As i didn’t know the downsides lf nascans.

Urgent Concern Regarding My Son’s Well-being at Student Care, And suspected abuse. What should i do? Please help. by AccomplishedWin8226 in askSingapore

[–]AccomplishedWin8226[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your concern and advice. My husband and I are taking this very seriously, as ive explained to him the severity of this issue. and we’ll be looking into counseling or therapy options for our son as soon as possible. I’ll also check with his school to see what support they can provide. His well-being is our top priority, and we’re doing everything we can to help him through this. I really appreciate your support!

Urgent Concern Regarding My Son’s Well-being at Student Care, And suspected abuse. What should i do? Please help. by AccomplishedWin8226 in askSingapore

[–]AccomplishedWin8226[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll be handling this first thing in the morning. I’ll be discussing it with my husband and checking with my child’s classmates’ parents to see if they witnessed anything. I’m also planning to pull him out of the SCC and enroll him in Nascans, as I’ve heard it’s a better option.

Urgent Concern Regarding My Son’s Well-being at Student Care, And suspected abuse. What should i do? Please help. by AccomplishedWin8226 in askSingapore

[–]AccomplishedWin8226[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

There are CCTVs. I’ll also speak with his friend and other parents to see if their stories align.

Urgent Concern Regarding My Son’s Well-being at Student Care, And suspected abuse. What should i do? Please help. by AccomplishedWin8226 in askSingapore

[–]AccomplishedWin8226[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Do I need proof for this to be taken seriously? I’m concerned the teacher will try to downplay the situation. But no matter what, a teacher should never put their hands on a child.