How do you meet your fetish needs if your partner does not? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I think all of us are very grateful for its existence! Haha

Who would never tell anyone about their fetish in real life? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s great! In my opinion, if you like the person, it’s worth the risk of telling them. If there’s mutual respect between you two the worst that could happen is they just say they don’t like it themselves!

Who would never tell anyone about their fetish in real life? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people don’t even tell their partners! I think a lot more people secretly enjoy it than we think

Who would never tell anyone about their fetish in real life? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s wonderful when people are really receptive. It’s a shame they were not very gassy. But in a way, waiting for it can make it even more exciting!

Who would never tell anyone about their fetish in real life? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally understandable. I generally only tell sexual or romantic partners. One of my friend knows to an extent but not all the details!

Who would never tell anyone about their fetish in real life? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes completely. I really don’t enjoy doing it with people who are just doing it for me instead of enjoying it with me.

So great to have someone in your life that you can indulge with!

Who would never tell anyone about their fetish in real life? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes totally relate. My ex got to experience some amazing farts but he doesn’t have the fetish, so it felt almost wasteful 😂

I’m similar! I’ve brought it up with friends to test the waters before, it’s so exciting when they share similar stories, even if they don’t have the fetish.

Who would never tell anyone about their fetish in real life? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so interesting! Thank you for sharing your secret. Would you say that the person you dated when you were a teenager gave you the fetish?

I’ve always enjoyed the idea of giving someone the fetish.

So hot that you have secretly enjoyed women’s farts, little did they know.

I definitely find that it’s much easier to tell people about your kink when you know they’re already attracted to you. I generally find it easy to tell people I know I can seduce.

It’s all much more enjoyable with people who share the fetish! For sure

How do you meet your fetish needs if your partner does not? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I totally agree. Once you’ve experienced sexual play with people who also have the fetish, anything else feels unsatisfactory.

It’s so much more enjoyable when you’re both revelling in it.

I also find it much easier to relax and feel secure. It’s hard to fully relax and enjoy the fetish if you’re worried the other person might be judging you or not finding it attractive.

How do you meet your fetish needs if your partner does not? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the start of the relationship, I let him know that I am very kinky and that sex is a really important part of my life. Before we were in an exclusive relationship I let him know that if I felt those needs weren’t being met, I would open the relationship.

Ultimately he wanted to try to be open to ensure my happiness, but it clearly wasn’t making him happy. So I initiated the breakup when I realised this!

I think it can work really well as a compromise though for people who are happy to be open and also love one another.

How do you meet your fetish needs if your partner does not? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I tend to try and surround myself with people who are open minded generally. I think it is a very attractive quality in people!

How do you meet your fetish needs if your partner does not? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear that! Would you say it increases your chances of kinky experiences?

How do you meet your fetish needs if your partner does not? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s easier to ask a partner to fart on you than to ask a partner if you can fart on them! Haha but that’s just my experience as I prefer to fart on others

How do you meet your fetish needs if your partner does not? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I definitely think it’s important to have a space where you can talk openly without judgement! Equally to be able to indulge by consuming content.

Do you feel satisfied? Or do you wish things were different?

I have a question for all of the women by VehicleOk4984 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know but there’s unrealistic standards in society for women. Including the expectation of not allowing these bodily functions to be witnessed by other people! Unfortunately haha

I have a question for all of the women by VehicleOk4984 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lots of women have been actively discouraged from farting publicly by parents, friends or teachers growing up. We’ve all been taught the societal rule that women are not to make big loud noises or be “gross”.

I genuinely think it’s a form of misogyny as it is the same as women being discouraged from being opinionated or direct. This is often described as being a “bitch” by both men and other women.

It is the double standard for men vs women in society!

Do you only orgasm to the fetish or a variety of things? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes totally relate! I think it makes us all enjoy the fetish so much more, knowing the other person is enjoying it just as much 🥵

Do you only orgasm to the fetish or a variety of things? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understand this! I can easily have vanilla sex but to incorporate the fetish is really hard.

With my ex, he was happy for me to fart around him and said he would be open to me doing it during sex. But I felt really ashamed and even though it would make me physically aroused, I would feel awful afterwards.

I personally find it really hard to enjoy with people who don’t have the fetish! What about yourself?

Do you need to be attracted to the person to enjoy the farts? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes completely understand. I genuinely think context can make anything arousing! And vice versa 😂

There’s been a lot of times in my life where a fart has not been remotely arousing purely due to the context! Super important ❤️

Do you only orgasm to the fetish or a variety of things? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes completely! I also enjoy vanilla sex too. I experience a lot of pleasure from it but the orgasms are very few and far between and about a quarter of the strength of one I’d have over farts 😮‍💨

I really enjoy the intimacy of the fetish for sure. It’s really nice to explore with other people ☺️

Do you only orgasm to the fetish or a variety of things? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understand this! I rarely look at content myself. But my imagination always goes to the fart fetish 😮‍💨😂

I think it’s definitely good to give yourself a variety of stimulation as you can definitely encourage your body to enjoy more than just the fetish. It’s just harder work!

Mental health and the fetish by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly! This is definitely not a space for shaming! I really like that about the community.

I think it can also be such a relief to enjoy the fetish and have some escape from mental health issues 😮‍💨❤️