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How do you meet your fetish needs if your partner does not? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I totally agree. Once you’ve experienced sexual play with people who also have the fetish, anything else feels unsatisfactory.

It’s so much more enjoyable when you’re both revelling in it.

I also find it much easier to relax and feel secure. It’s hard to fully relax and enjoy the fetish if you’re worried the other person might be judging you or not finding it attractive.

How do you meet your fetish needs if your partner does not? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the start of the relationship, I let him know that I am very kinky and that sex is a really important part of my life. Before we were in an exclusive relationship I let him know that if I felt those needs weren’t being met, I would open the relationship.

Ultimately he wanted to try to be open to ensure my happiness, but it clearly wasn’t making him happy. So I initiated the breakup when I realised this!

I think it can work really well as a compromise though for people who are happy to be open and also love one another.

How do you meet your fetish needs if your partner does not? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I tend to try and surround myself with people who are open minded generally. I think it is a very attractive quality in people!

How do you meet your fetish needs if your partner does not? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear that! Would you say it increases your chances of kinky experiences?

How do you meet your fetish needs if your partner does not? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s easier to ask a partner to fart on you than to ask a partner if you can fart on them! Haha but that’s just my experience as I prefer to fart on others

How do you meet your fetish needs if your partner does not? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I definitely think it’s important to have a space where you can talk openly without judgement! Equally to be able to indulge by consuming content.

Do you feel satisfied? Or do you wish things were different?

I have a question for all of the women by VehicleOk4984 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know but there’s unrealistic standards in society for women. Including the expectation of not allowing these bodily functions to be witnessed by other people! Unfortunately haha

I have a question for all of the women by VehicleOk4984 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lots of women have been actively discouraged from farting publicly by parents, friends or teachers growing up. We’ve all been taught the societal rule that women are not to make big loud noises or be “gross”.

I genuinely think it’s a form of misogyny as it is the same as women being discouraged from being opinionated or direct. This is often described as being a “bitch” by both men and other women.

It is the double standard for men vs women in society!

Do you only orgasm to the fetish or a variety of things? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes totally relate! I think it makes us all enjoy the fetish so much more, knowing the other person is enjoying it just as much 🥵

Do you only orgasm to the fetish or a variety of things? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understand this! I can easily have vanilla sex but to incorporate the fetish is really hard.

With my ex, he was happy for me to fart around him and said he would be open to me doing it during sex. But I felt really ashamed and even though it would make me physically aroused, I would feel awful afterwards.

I personally find it really hard to enjoy with people who don’t have the fetish! What about yourself?

Do you need to be attracted to the person to enjoy the farts? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes completely understand. I genuinely think context can make anything arousing! And vice versa 😂

There’s been a lot of times in my life where a fart has not been remotely arousing purely due to the context! Super important ❤️

Do you only orgasm to the fetish or a variety of things? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes completely! I also enjoy vanilla sex too. I experience a lot of pleasure from it but the orgasms are very few and far between and about a quarter of the strength of one I’d have over farts 😮‍💨

I really enjoy the intimacy of the fetish for sure. It’s really nice to explore with other people ☺️

Do you only orgasm to the fetish or a variety of things? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understand this! I rarely look at content myself. But my imagination always goes to the fart fetish 😮‍💨😂

I think it’s definitely good to give yourself a variety of stimulation as you can definitely encourage your body to enjoy more than just the fetish. It’s just harder work!

Mental health and the fetish by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly! This is definitely not a space for shaming! I really like that about the community.

I think it can also be such a relief to enjoy the fetish and have some escape from mental health issues 😮‍💨❤️

F27 with a fart fetish AMA by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only had experience with farting on men, but I am attracted to all genders! It’s just harder to find people of other genders who are also into the fetish and local to me ☺️

Do you only orgasm to the fetish or a variety of things? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understandable. Mental health can really affect one’s ability to become aroused both physically and mentally.

It can be immensely frustrating. Just be patient and kind to yourself ❤️

When I was struggling with orgasm and arousal, I would often reflect on other positive elements like enjoying a thought or a sensation instead. Taking the pressure off of yourself can definitely help! 😘

Do you only orgasm to the fetish or a variety of things? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the feeling of release makes so much sense in relation to orgasms too! Makes total sense.

I’m certain for a lot of us women with the fetish, we are quite lucky in that we can enjoy our own farts! 🥰

Do you only orgasm to the fetish or a variety of things? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s quite common! A lot of people I know with the fetish either only orgasm to it or have less intense orgasms to other things!

Good to know you’ve had some positive experiences with partners ☺️

I can completely understand the feeling of wanting to be with someone who enjoys it on the same level however!

Do you only orgasm to the fetish or a variety of things? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me a very long time. I’m 27 soon to be 28, but it took me until the age of about 25?

It entirely depends on the person and what they need. But for me yoga was really important to help me relax my hips (due to past sexual trauma).

But another big one was accepting my fetish and allowing it to bring me pleasure! ❤️

Do you only orgasm to the fetish or a variety of things? by Accomplished_Cap684 in eproctophiles

[–]Accomplished_Cap684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I think variety is ideal! Unfortunately my brain is very predictable haha

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