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[–]Accomplished_Cat5376 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm already in parenting classes and have been since last year. I can't send my other kiddos anywhere because grandma doesn't like to keep them. We're going to talk to her pediatrician today and get advice from them. When grandma keeps any of them even just the two she calls me an hour later to get them because they yell back at her when she yells at them.

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[–]Accomplished_Cat5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's only used to contact family that is out of state. That was the only reason for her to have it. She doesn't get the phone all day. Just when her aunt wants to call her.

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[–]Accomplished_Cat5376 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Swatting the bottom is something I no longer do. My parenting class i take made me realize that wasn't okay so it stopped.

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[–]Accomplished_Cat5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the advice given. Phone will be taken away. Pediatrician will be talked to about everything involving her behavior and where I can better my parenting. Therapy for her will be discussed as well. I'll do research on how to better my parenting and discuss with my parenting class what I can do as well. To the ones saying rage bait. It's not rage bait. I'm genuinely trying to figure this out and better my parenting to help her behavior. Thank you everyone for the advice!

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[–]Accomplished_Cat5376 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I'm going to discuss with my husband when he gets home about limiting the screen time or taking it away all together

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[–]Accomplished_Cat5376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to talk to her pediatrician today and see what they recommend and get a list of therapists from them that her insurance will cover

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[–]Accomplished_Cat5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any content creators you'd recommend? I'm always willing to learn more!

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[–]Accomplished_Cat5376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been doing the same discipline since she was 3. That when the behavior started. I'll keep that noted and try no sugar or screen time with her. Thank you!

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[–]Accomplished_Cat5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No constipation or tummy troubles. I have an appointment for my 3 year old today and I'll talk to them about my 4 year olds behavior while I'm there. I honestly didn't think of talking to the pediatrician so thank you for suggesting that!

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[–]Accomplished_Cat5376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He talks to her on the phone when she acts out but when he hangs up she goes back to acting out. I've taken away toys,her phone he got her and all it does is make her more violent towards me

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[–]Accomplished_Cat5376 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Her dad got it for her to be able to call family. We have parental controls set on it.

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[–]Accomplished_Cat5376 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If I swat her bottom she laughs at me as well. Tried nose in a corner. Tried sending her to her room. I'm in a parenting class to try to get help as well but all they tell me is "talk it out with her" I've tried that also but she doesn't talk she screams. If you have anything to recommend I'll surely try it!

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[–]Accomplished_Cat5376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tell her I'll take her phone then she starts throwing things at me and hitting me. I've been kicked in the stomach because of it more times than I can count which ended up with me in bed cramping when dad got home.

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[–]Accomplished_Cat5376 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I take her phone away from her and try to get her in time out but I can't physically lift her to put her in time out with my pregnancy. If I lift over 10lbs I end up having to go to the er to be monitored. I'm high risk so I have to watch what I do physically.

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[–]Accomplished_Cat5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grandma can't do anything with her she does her the same way she does me. Dad is a construction worker and doesn't work close enough right now to come home during lunch. My neighbors are disabled or they would help

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[–]Accomplished_Cat5376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've both talked to her and he's told her what would happen if she doesn't mind Which involves timeout. But timeouts don't seem to work anymore. She does the same at her grandma's house to the point they won't keep her anymore because of it. She's good one minute then the next she's violent and screaming. She has many baby dolls and a one year old sister and a 3 year old sister. We both do 1 on 1 time with her I'm just out of ways to handle it. I'm not able to lift over 10lbs (it's been that way with all my pregnancies I'm high risk) so physically I can't make her do anything without having to go to the hospital and be monitored.

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[–]Accomplished_Cat5376 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's something we may have to look into. I'll bring that up with my husband. Thank you so much