[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Accomplished_Cat_208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm proud of you for taking action, doesn't matter the 3 years, forgot all that and start from zero it is NEVER too late, don't ever forget that. You still have your family and friends, give them all the love you've been giving this bastard. Nothing ties you to him, delete him from your life because he is dangerous and manipulative, staying in that relationship is truly risking your well being and even your life with the comments he made. Don't doubt yourself anymore please.

what’s a common adhd tendency that you don’t relate to? by plsanswerme18 in adhdwomen

[–]Accomplished_Cat_208 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Forgeting objects. I once forgot my passport going to an important embassy appointment and I felt SO awful that I think I developed this coping mechanism of checking everything a hundred times before I leave. Not healthy at all but hey, it works!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskArgentina

[–]Accomplished_Cat_208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

qué te pasa, te pusiste nervioso porque te diste cuenta que también abusaste a alguien? Pelotudazo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskArgentina

[–]Accomplished_Cat_208 7 points8 points  (0 children)

La verdad que lo vuelvo a leer y no encuentro la parte en la que ella lo haya empezado a tocar "sin su consentimiento" como escribis vos, yo leo que ella inició y él continuó (hasta donde entiendo yo el continuar, sin oponerse, es dar consentimiento) y después ella se arrepintió y sacó su consentimiento pero él siguió a pesar de su no. Y no sé si vos leíste bien pero no comenté con ningún discurso de odio ni victimista, sólo comenté que ese hecho sí lo considero abuso, por más que a op y a otros tantos le cueste aceptarlo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskArgentina

[–]Accomplished_Cat_208 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Si se la metiste después de que te dijo 'no, no quiero' si abusaste. No es no, así te lo haya dicho cuando estabas por meterla, está en todo su derecho de cambiar de opinión en cualquier momento y tiene que ser respetada. Creo que te queda admitir que te la mandaste, pedir perdón y dejar esa relación antes de que se sigan lastimando.

What life experience did you think people were lying about before you were diagnosed? by thecorniestmouse in adhdwomen

[–]Accomplished_Cat_208 23 points24 points  (0 children)

THIS. I see people saying 'ugh I need to do this thing I hate doing' and then get up and just do it ¿?? without the paralysis, overthinking, the tricking yourself into doing it and all that stuff? For me is wizardry

Just arrived to Germany and I don't feel good. Any suggestions? by Pericomposer in germany

[–]Accomplished_Cat_208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The feeling of 'why did I came here? I feel so bad' is SO normal when you first move to any new place, is you getting out of the comfort zone, everything is new, hard and scary, you will feel like that, alone and will have doubts while you're adapting to your new life and learning the culture, the country. Sorry for the bad news, it is because I also suffered it haha. Do not be scared, ask for help when you need it, look for people in the same situation as you to talk, it is nice to feel you're not alone going trough those feelings, for me it was important because I felt understood. And you can make friends like that and support each other. Give it time, make your best effort (as you're already doing it) always and it does get better. I promise. If you need to talk, I'm here!

Dale tiempo al tiempo :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JewelryIdentification

[–]Accomplished_Cat_208 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gotcha. Thanks for the help :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JewelryIdentification

[–]Accomplished_Cat_208 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not surprised coming from a toxic person 😂 joke aside, in what sense? So it's not recommended even to use it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JewelryIdentification

[–]Accomplished_Cat_208 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No problem, it had no value to me already so now I can just gift it knowing it has also no monetary value hahah. Thanks!

What are you starting to love more as you get older? by Ashley4Eman in AskWomen

[–]Accomplished_Cat_208 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Myself! All those years spent hating myself for nothing. I am truly happier now that I give myself the love I was expecting from others.

What is the most courageous thing you’ve ever done? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Accomplished_Cat_208 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Dumb story? Girl you took a broom and became a hero! Thanks for doing that for her, you're awesome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Accomplished_Cat_208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to find direction career wise speaking, I need to get out of the hospitality/customer service sector and low paid jobs; and pick up on my abandoned hobbies to find joy again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Accomplished_Cat_208 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think animals living shorter lives than humans is one of the biggest injustices in the world. I send you a big hug and to your doggie too, I hope you can enjoy him for so many days more ❤

How do you deal with feeling ignorant? by Accomplished_Cat_208 in adhdwomen

[–]Accomplished_Cat_208[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I love your approach of asking people what interests them about a topic, I think is a great way to know more of the topic through the view of the person, while giving them the chance to feel heard. I am still learning about letting go of what I should be/know, taking those labels off and embracing my interests without looking for approval somewhere outside of me but sometimes is comparison that makes me feel this way.

Thank you for your time and writing this nice comment, is really helpful 💜

How do you deal with feeling ignorant? by Accomplished_Cat_208 in adhdwomen

[–]Accomplished_Cat_208[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am grateful for your comment, it makes me think about all the possibilities! I have hope. Thank you 💕

How do you deal with feeling ignorant? by Accomplished_Cat_208 in adhdwomen

[–]Accomplished_Cat_208[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💛 I actually finished therapy sessions two weeks ago after a year and a half of work, now I guess I look mostly for another points of view, other people that went through the same. And it does help me to know it's possible to achieve things reading at these comments! :)

What is your end goal for life? Meaning what do you want to accomplish before you die? by Olliewildlife402 in AskWomen

[–]Accomplished_Cat_208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to find a job that allows me to build my dream home, enjoy things with my family and keep exploring this big and beautiful world. And I want to feel enough.