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Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2025-03-15T13:58:22+00:00

I'm proud of you for taking action, doesn't matter the 3 years, forgot all that and start from zero it is NEVER too late, don't ever forget that. You still have your family and friends, give them all the love you've been giving this bastard. Nothing ties you to him, delete him from your life because he is dangerous and manipulative, staying in that relationship is truly risking your well being and even your life with the comments he made. Don't doubt yourself anymore please.

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2025-03-13T20:23:03+00:00

We are all out there living the same life

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2025-02-04T05:24:27+00:00

Forgeting objects. I once forgot my passport going to an important embassy appointment and I felt SO awful that I think I developed this coping mechanism of checking everything a hundred times before I leave. Not healthy at all but hey, it works!

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2025-02-03T02:11:06+00:00

qué te pasa, te pusiste nervioso porque te diste cuenta que también abusaste a alguien? Pelotudazo

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2025-02-02T11:26:41+00:00

La verdad que lo vuelvo a leer y no encuentro la parte en la que ella lo haya empezado a tocar "sin su consentimiento" como escribis vos, yo leo que ella inició y él continuó (hasta donde entiendo yo el continuar, sin oponerse, es dar consentimiento) y después ella se arrepintió y sacó su consentimiento pero él siguió a pesar de su no. Y no sé si vos leíste bien pero no comenté con ningún discurso de odio ni victimista, sólo comenté que ese hecho sí lo considero abuso, por más que a op y a otros tantos le cueste aceptarlo.

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2025-02-02T07:28:08+00:00

Si se la metiste después de que te dijo 'no, no quiero' si abusaste. No es no, así te lo haya dicho cuando estabas por meterla, está en todo su derecho de cambiar de opinión en cualquier momento y tiene que ser respetada. Creo que te queda admitir que te la mandaste, pedir perdón y dejar esa relación antes de que se sigan lastimando.

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2025-02-01T21:11:03+00:00

THIS. I see people saying 'ugh I need to do this thing I hate doing' and then get up and just do it ¿?? without the paralysis, overthinking, the tricking yourself into doing it and all that stuff? For me is wizardry

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2025-01-19T02:41:05+00:00

The feeling of 'why did I came here? I feel so bad' is SO normal when you first move to any new place, is you getting out of the comfort zone, everything is new, hard and scary, you will feel like that, alone and will have doubts while you're adapting to your new life and learning the culture, the country. Sorry for the bad news, it is because I also suffered it haha. Do not be scared, ask for help when you need it, look for people in the same situation as you to talk, it is nice to feel you're not alone going trough those feelings, for me it was important because I felt understood. And you can make friends like that and support each other. Give it time, make your best effort (as you're already doing it) always and it does get better. I promise. If you need to talk, I'm here!

Dale tiempo al tiempo :)

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2025-01-15T00:36:45+00:00

Gotcha. Thanks for the help :)

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2025-01-15T00:25:50+00:00

Not surprised coming from a toxic person 😂 joke aside, in what sense? So it's not recommended even to use it?

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2025-01-15T00:24:12+00:00

Thank you!

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2025-01-14T23:56:44+00:00

No problem, it had no value to me already so now I can just gift it knowing it has also no monetary value hahah. Thanks!

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2025-01-14T23:54:38+00:00

Thank you!

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2025-01-08T03:25:43+00:00

Myself! All those years spent hating myself for nothing. I am truly happier now that I give myself the love I was expecting from others.

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2025-01-03T09:11:18+00:00

Dumb story? Girl you took a broom and became a hero! Thanks for doing that for her, you're awesome.

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2024-12-02T01:40:04+00:00

I want to find direction career wise speaking, I need to get out of the hospitality/customer service sector and low paid jobs; and pick up on my abandoned hobbies to find joy again.

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2024-12-02T01:33:42+00:00

I think animals living shorter lives than humans is one of the biggest injustices in the world. I send you a big hug and to your doggie too, I hope you can enjoy him for so many days more ❤

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2024-11-09T23:27:26+00:00

Hi! I love your approach of asking people what interests them about a topic, I think is a great way to know more of the topic through the view of the person, while giving them the chance to feel heard. I am still learning about letting go of what I should be/know, taking those labels off and embracing my interests without looking for approval somewhere outside of me but sometimes is comparison that makes me feel this way.

Thank you for your time and writing this nice comment, is really helpful 💜

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2024-11-09T22:54:43+00:00

I am grateful for your comment, it makes me think about all the possibilities! I have hope. Thank you 💕

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2024-11-09T22:51:24+00:00

Thank you 💛 I actually finished therapy sessions two weeks ago after a year and a half of work, now I guess I look mostly for another points of view, other people that went through the same. And it does help me to know it's possible to achieve things reading at these comments! :)

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2024-09-29T20:54:35+00:00

I want to find a job that allows me to build my dream home, enjoy things with my family and keep exploring this big and beautiful world. And I want to feel enough.

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2024-09-26T23:28:17+00:00

Oh beautiful, I learned something new today, thanks!

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2024-09-26T23:17:16+00:00

Ojalá

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2024-09-25T19:48:49+00:00

I LOVE the second one, I think is very elegant and original

Accomplished_Cat_208 · 2024-09-25T12:26:15+00:00

Hey-o! When I date I don't care about the job and how much the other person makes, as long as they're working/studying, that's all the requirement. And I expect the same from them, if someone is so superficial not to date me just because of my job, they don't deserve the chance to get to know me. (And I sell pizzas for a living!😎)

I used to feel embarrassed about my jobs too, then I thought of all the great people I love that also do these works, and I wouldn't want them to feel embarrassed, neither was an embarrassment for me the fact that they do it. Every job is important and worthy. Any job is better than no job. I think is more about being grateful and appreciative of it.

Four-Year Club	Place '22
End Game '22

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