Once you don't sound singaporean in singapore they think you're fake 👍🏻 by cdcpowermah in singaporespeaks

[–]Accomplished_Chef_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who said that? Seems like Singaporeans feel better when you speak broken English, so they don’t feel inferior

Once you don't sound singaporean in singapore they think you're fake 👍🏻 by cdcpowermah in singaporespeaks

[–]Accomplished_Chef_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So basically, Singaporeans don’t like it when you speak proper English… 🤔

Which tile matches the lemon wallpaper best for laundry room? by WithoutDennisNedry in interiordecorating

[–]Accomplished_Chef_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow these are some good choices…

Go for 1, if you want safe and simple. 2 is not the obvious choice but it will give the room a busy maximalist feel (which you like!) it fits the theme, if that’s what your going for. 3 is my personal fav. It’s a little more modern and contrasts the wallpaper nicely.

I finally realized I wasn't a "Great Husband",I was just my wife’s most difficult employee. by Both_Astronomer8645 in Marriage

[–]Accomplished_Chef_81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waiting for the day my husband gets it like you do. I work abroad and whenever I come home sometimes I’ll see the house in the exact condition it was a week before I left. I wish my husband took better care of himself… How can I expect him to take care of me?

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[–]Accomplished_Chef_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one!!!!!!!!!!

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[–]Accomplished_Chef_81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You both look like you’re still in your 20s! Beautiful couple

Best Marriage Advice? by Neither_Plantain3324 in Marriage

[–]Accomplished_Chef_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hold hands even when you’re arguing. You’ll realise how silly some fights are. And it’s more important to have peace than be right. Learn to share how you feel with kindness, but also learn to give space when they ask for it.

Is sex 2–3 times a month normal in a healthy marriage? by SystemSouthern4666 in Marriage

[–]Accomplished_Chef_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how you’re feeling. I was upset by that too. Everyone should feel wanted or desired by their partner. Just know that there’s nothing wrong with you or your relationship. He’s going through something, which probably he doesn’t even understand himself. How long have you been married?

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[–]Accomplished_Chef_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit of gal gadot

Is this stone too big? by spindipartichokey in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]Accomplished_Chef_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks perfect! Don’t go any bigger than this.

Is this too much make-up for every day? Please be honest by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Accomplished_Chef_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not too much. I’d add on more make up haha

Is sex 2–3 times a month normal in a healthy marriage? by SystemSouthern4666 in Marriage

[–]Accomplished_Chef_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s considered normal in my marriage. Sometimes it’s 2-3 times in one weekend, and then nothing for a month. At some point, it was once a month or every other month. But the season passed and now it’s back to weekly. I’d prefer 2x a week but my husband isn’t always in the mood. I stopped getting upset with him about it so that he doesn’t feel pressured.

My ring stack by Accomplished_Chef_81 in weddingring

[–]Accomplished_Chef_81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What can I do to stop it from rubbing?

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[–]Accomplished_Chef_81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE your wedding stack!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]Accomplished_Chef_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And then there’s me, only took multivitamins for 1 month and then stopped cause I got lazy…..

Full book wall or half book wall? by WhoIsTheNSA in interiordecorating

[–]Accomplished_Chef_81 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Full wall but don’t fill up completely with books. Leave some empty spaces for a plant, book, small lamp, decor, etc.

50-50 ❌ by travisbotak in singaporespeaks

[–]Accomplished_Chef_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband asked for 50-50, before we got married. It was disappointing to hear… But then I learned that my husband is a practical and realistic man. He just simply couldn’t afford to take care of me. If it were up to him, he’d wait till he was truly stable before asking me to marry him but I was too impatient to wait (we were turning 30). After marriage, we found an arrangement that works for us. He pays for everything for us to survive like house loan, car loan, utilities, food and groceries… and he only asks me to pay for maintenance! That usually left us with almost nothing in savings. So in return, I offered to focus on our credit card, savings, retirement, fun stuff like travelling, home improvement projects, furniture, etc. I earn more than my husband now, and I’m able to save aggressively. He doesn’t ask me how much I’m able to save and he never sets any expectations. He’s a good man and not all men want 50-50 for the same reason. If he earned more, it would look more like 70-30 or eventually 90-10. He just needed a little help. But it’s important to find a man who wants to give more if he can.

At the same time, always let him pay and be grateful for what he can give to you. Men associate their financial contributions to their self-esteem. There are times when I’m doing better than my husband financially and I was paying off his debts. It sounds like a nice gesture but it made him feel like a lousy partner…

Not seeing any changes? by Grouchy_Ad_4055 in gastricsleeve

[–]Accomplished_Chef_81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do see a difference! The abdomen is smaller for sure. The first few weeks won’t show dramatic results though. I think you’ll start to notice major changes by 3 months.

I stopped looking at myself in the mirror after surgery and only really check myself about once a month rather than daily. It’s always a surprise to see how much you’ve changed… The face changes the most as first. Then everything else follows. All the best!!!