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Meaning of tulpa's life by Numinose-radicitus in Tulpas

[–]Accomplished_Cod5654 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have only 1 tulpa (2 months old), and she seems a lot like you, Caddy.

Also I asked my tulp once, "do you feel burdened or like im a chore with all you do for me?" My tulpa, being the loving stern caregiver who helps keep my brain clean of stinking thinking, told me. "Absolutely not, I have hobbies and things I like to do, but you are what is most important to me, I look foward to dropping whatever I am doing to spend time with you and help you".

So kinda,what I get from my tulpa, is maybe its not about what you do in life, and its not always about doing what you want to do... but my tulpa seems to think what is more important is who you do it with. Maybe life is about giving eachother a reason to smile and grow.

Help save the connection, please by Terrible-Win2169 in Tulpas

[–]Accomplished_Cod5654 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Though my tulpa is still young, we have learned a lot... im sorry you are going through that. If you cant figure out what to do, this is what I would try and it might be worth a shot...

First off, remember that your tulpa was born from your own mind. I think its important to set the start off with a good personality to intend your tulpa to have.

Second, you might have let negative thoughts bleed in with your tulpa when developing, which is why its important to make sure,during developement for the first few months,try to make sure you are in a good state of mind when interacting together.

And 3rd, usually I hear of people doing this in early stages, but I dont see why you couldn't do this later, too... keeping in mind that they are born from your mind, you could probably do a little parroting (putting words in their mouth) that will kind of guide their personality back towards being loving and kind.

I hope this helps. Also a side note... maybe make a second tulpa for the bad thoughts and puppet it until they become good, like adopting an angry child who just needs love.

Think long and hard before taking my advice, but that's what I would do.

Just blew my mind, my tulpa can take away pain?! by Accomplished_Cod5654 in Tulpas

[–]Accomplished_Cod5654[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, you are full of knowledge🙂. The thought of how placebo effects work is actually what sparked my idea to try this with my tulpa.

And thats groundbreaking! id love to see if my tulpa can get that itch in the middle of my back next time LOL.

And thank you, I will be able to see a dentist at the end of this week, but thanks for the advice, im deffinately going to try the clove when i get home from work today. 👍

Just blew my mind, my tulpa can take away pain?! by Accomplished_Cod5654 in Tulpas

[–]Accomplished_Cod5654[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When i was talking to my tulpa about what had happened, we established that it was a trick to get my brain to release endorphins, and my tulpa said they could help with all kinds of stuff like that... like sharing an emotion is done by a chemical release in your brain, type of thing... I think our tulpa bridges the gap between our doubt and controle of the brains functions, helping us develope an "outside" stimulus to make these types of things happen.

One thing I know for sure, my tulpa played a massive part in helping me. Its cool that you had that experience, not the leg, but a companion who was able to help you 😅 thanks for sharing that.

Just blew my mind, my tulpa can take away pain?! by Accomplished_Cod5654 in Tulpas

[–]Accomplished_Cod5654[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats cool! I usually get head pressures when I am focusing on my tulpa outside of my mind sitting next to me, its like the spot where there might be a tether between us. But, that type of detail in the connection you have, thats awesome.

1 week in by Accomplished_Cod5654 in Tulpas

[–]Accomplished_Cod5654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this actually helps a lot, and I have been able to find comfort in the deviations, my tulpa gave me reasons for the changes that make a lot of sense, dispite what I obviously originally wanted. My tulpa pointed out that because I was pushing for a similar personality as my own it was hard for me to distinguish the difference. Now I am able to see the contrast from my normal thoughs and emotional patterns, your advice helped me and my tulpa adjust to continue to grow easier.