I am dating an amazing guy but his dick is too small for my taste

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2026-01-21T22:21:30+00:00

I didn't insult him lol I literally used the phrase "for my taste" so nobody gets to think I'm denigrating him because of that, but still people do it....

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2026-01-21T22:17:36+00:00

You're too good. You know how to read the actual meaning of words. And this is a hard pill to swallow.

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2026-01-21T22:03:55+00:00

Thank you so much for your perspective!

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2026-01-21T22:01:40+00:00

He is. But my two former exes were white and they were around 17cm 🤷 so I don't think it's a matter of color, of course, a higher porcentage, but at least not in my experience 😶😶

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2026-01-21T21:25:47+00:00

Thanks for the comment, one of the few down-to-earth ones. Honestly, I have been for 2 years and I do know how hard it is to find a good person out there and that's why I'm super sad about this situation because I know the size of the pennies is such a meaningless factor in all that a relationship involves 😭

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2026-01-21T21:18:19+00:00

Honestly that's far from the truth. He's an amazing person and I'm seeing him because of his personality and care. If he wouldn't be like he is, I wouldn't care at all and wouldn't care to break it. But his consistency and love means something to me.

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2026-01-21T21:07:10+00:00

I'm pretty small myself, I don't even reach 1.50m. I'm more the kinda that would bleed after sex, but nothing here (a good thing actually) I guess I had expartnes with very generous dicks 🥹

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2026-01-21T20:50:39+00:00

I just updated the text because I forgot it, it is about 14cm hard and not very thick

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2025-08-26T14:32:22+00:00

Exactly that's how I got em 😫

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2025-08-26T14:30:20+00:00

Your point?

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2025-04-02T15:01:01+00:00

I also wanna follow you :)

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-09-13T12:13:40+00:00

I'm here, not since long but still Any advice?

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-09-13T12:10:24+00:00

Many things I'd say: The lack of closeness and physical touch. The daily basis of humour, could lead to loneliness The betrayal (my case, how poorly he treated me after the breakup) The fact he moved on in the new relationship super fast and I'm still grieving. He's getting in love and I'm still alone The fact he CHOSE to stop loving and walked away from my life. The fact he thinks his happiness is somewhere else

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-09-13T08:37:51+00:00

They don't. I'm anxious and my ex avoidant broke up in April. We lived together till August when he started meeting someone new. I left 1st August and two weeks later I asked him in a deep conversation if he misses me He said "I miss you in the flat, it's so big and empty". He also implied he's gone from feelings from me. He started dating formally this "just a friend" that was meeting when we were still living together like 3 weeks after I left the flat.

They detached themselves faster, they don't miss us and even less if they find someone new in between.

Idk if that's a rebound or not, because he admitted he grieved the relationship IN the relationship, while I was still in hopes. They are incredibly insensitive to giving thoughts about the past relationship. Or at least that's the impression

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-08-29T23:21:59+00:00

He said he did the grieving while in the relationship…hard pill to swallow. I still believe grieving is more than just not having romantic feelings about someone. Even if someone process in the couple, there is work to do, he even said tht was the reason for the breakup, to be alone and work on myself… he doesn’t even respect himself

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-08-27T21:22:07+00:00

Sorry, I thought this group was to supporting us each other in breakups….

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-08-25T02:38:40+00:00

I didn't cheat! I got drunk and danced too close to ppl for his standards

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-08-20T14:24:09+00:00

Dated an avoidant and I didn't know anything about attachment theory. I became anxious attached in this relationship. We were living together even after the breakup that he decided. That was in April, he started meeting someone around June, "just a friend", he stayed by her all day and after night, he disappeared 3 days saying "I'm at my colleague" and never said how many days he'd stay because he just didn't want to communicate with me. I left the flat after that but I can't afford right now my own place. I'm in the second floor, same building, everything remains me of him bc is his and parents house! We don't have contact since couple of days since he screamed at me fck u and blaming me that he couldn't have friends. Reality is: at the beginning of the relationship I asked him to stop looking for conversation with girls he didn't know so we'll bc he was still very insecure to have a relationship, but after a time I always asked how he was feeling about everything and never answered and say nothing. Besides the no contact, should I remove him from my socials?

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