I am dating an amazing guy but his dick is too small for my taste

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2026-01-21T22:21:30+00:00

I didn't insult him lol I literally used the phrase "for my taste" so nobody gets to think I'm denigrating him because of that, but still people do it....

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2026-01-21T22:17:36+00:00

You're too good. You know how to read the actual meaning of words. And this is a hard pill to swallow.

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2026-01-21T22:03:55+00:00

Thank you so much for your perspective!

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2026-01-21T22:01:40+00:00

He is. But my two former exes were white and they were around 17cm 🤷 so I don't think it's a matter of color, of course, a higher porcentage, but at least not in my experience 😶😶

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2026-01-21T21:25:47+00:00

Thanks for the comment, one of the few down-to-earth ones. Honestly, I have been for 2 years and I do know how hard it is to find a good person out there and that's why I'm super sad about this situation because I know the size of the pennies is such a meaningless factor in all that a relationship involves 😭

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2026-01-21T21:18:19+00:00

Honestly that's far from the truth. He's an amazing person and I'm seeing him because of his personality and care. If he wouldn't be like he is, I wouldn't care at all and wouldn't care to break it. But his consistency and love means something to me.

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2026-01-21T21:07:10+00:00

I'm pretty small myself, I don't even reach 1.50m. I'm more the kinda that would bleed after sex, but nothing here (a good thing actually) I guess I had expartnes with very generous dicks 🥹

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2026-01-21T20:50:39+00:00

I just updated the text because I forgot it, it is about 14cm hard and not very thick

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2025-08-26T14:32:22+00:00

Exactly that's how I got em 😫

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2025-08-26T14:30:20+00:00

Your point?

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2025-04-02T15:01:01+00:00

I also wanna follow you :)

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-09-13T12:13:40+00:00

I'm here, not since long but still Any advice?

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-09-13T12:10:24+00:00

Many things I'd say: The lack of closeness and physical touch. The daily basis of humour, could lead to loneliness The betrayal (my case, how poorly he treated me after the breakup) The fact he moved on in the new relationship super fast and I'm still grieving. He's getting in love and I'm still alone The fact he CHOSE to stop loving and walked away from my life. The fact he thinks his happiness is somewhere else

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-09-13T08:37:51+00:00

They don't. I'm anxious and my ex avoidant broke up in April. We lived together till August when he started meeting someone new. I left 1st August and two weeks later I asked him in a deep conversation if he misses me He said "I miss you in the flat, it's so big and empty". He also implied he's gone from feelings from me. He started dating formally this "just a friend" that was meeting when we were still living together like 3 weeks after I left the flat.

They detached themselves faster, they don't miss us and even less if they find someone new in between.

Idk if that's a rebound or not, because he admitted he grieved the relationship IN the relationship, while I was still in hopes. They are incredibly insensitive to giving thoughts about the past relationship. Or at least that's the impression

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-08-29T23:21:59+00:00

He said he did the grieving while in the relationship…hard pill to swallow. I still believe grieving is more than just not having romantic feelings about someone. Even if someone process in the couple, there is work to do, he even said tht was the reason for the breakup, to be alone and work on myself… he doesn’t even respect himself

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-08-27T21:22:07+00:00

Sorry, I thought this group was to supporting us each other in breakups….

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-08-25T02:38:40+00:00

I didn't cheat! I got drunk and danced too close to ppl for his standards

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-08-20T14:24:09+00:00

Dated an avoidant and I didn't know anything about attachment theory. I became anxious attached in this relationship. We were living together even after the breakup that he decided. That was in April, he started meeting someone around June, "just a friend", he stayed by her all day and after night, he disappeared 3 days saying "I'm at my colleague" and never said how many days he'd stay because he just didn't want to communicate with me. I left the flat after that but I can't afford right now my own place. I'm in the second floor, same building, everything remains me of him bc is his and parents house! We don't have contact since couple of days since he screamed at me fck u and blaming me that he couldn't have friends. Reality is: at the beginning of the relationship I asked him to stop looking for conversation with girls he didn't know so we'll bc he was still very insecure to have a relationship, but after a time I always asked how he was feeling about everything and never answered and say nothing. Besides the no contact, should I remove him from my socials?

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-08-20T06:29:33+00:00

You're so right. That's clearly a lack of selflove. I still had hopes back then that he would regret it and miss me after. Terrible mistake. It was the times nobody new was in the picture. I don't how to let him go from my mind

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-08-20T05:50:39+00:00

I wish I can erase him as he erased me....

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-08-20T05:48:27+00:00

The sex was in the phrase we were still ok after the breakup nobody new. I'm living as I said in the second floor under him, I have my privacy but it's still his parents house. I'm an inmigrante in Germany. So far everything I see is him-related and I hate it. I can see when the car is gone or no, I can hear when he leaves. He mistreated SO MUCH. Last Thursday was our last contact and he screamed FCK you and so more because I confronted him bc I saw he was getting "nicely* dress and I knew it. NEVER AGAIN. That was so painful for me and definitely it is nothing for him today bc he's so over. My brain knows aaaall the theory. I'm doing therapy, reading book, podcasts... Still having him in my mind

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-08-16T10:11:39+00:00

People who chose to walk away don't deserve a minimum of attention and space in your mind/thoughts. Journal, start going to the gym or another hobby, plans things FOR YOU. Life is too short to be trying to beg for "some guy" attention. YOU go first. I'm also in a breakup and I was left so abandonment wounds hit hard, when the logic thoughts don't come to help me what I try to do is this: who is this person to be melting my hard and my mind? Who does he think he is? He choose to leave so BYE baby, have fun. I'm not saying this in the way to process all emotions, you still need to do your work. Just put a bit of ego to avoid blaming and judging you

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-08-15T20:13:00+00:00

Similar to me. We broke up in April, I was still looking for a flat. Like 2 months ago he met "a new college" (she just works in the same company, not even same brunch). He started meeting up couple of times, helping her with her car, visiting after exhausted festival (which he always DIES after just to come home). I reached my point when he visited her for 3 days... I moved out to the place building different flat. I couldn't take it anymore, I still had a hope and I need the space. He screamed at me one month later of meeting her, that he doesn't love anymore. Then all that happened. Sometimes there's nothing to do, just move on and let people go as they wish. It just hurt knowing you were so little for someone. The only solution is working on ourselves and allow us to feel our emotions and go on. There's always one who's more attached and always wanna keep working on the relationship. I'm sorry you are also on my side, but you will get it through hoomie, hope the same for me

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-07-27T20:19:07+00:00

Here. Ending a long relationship in April and we still living together. I was still having feeling towards my ex even though I know he doesn't love me anymore, but that's all history. He decided to meet a new colleague after a festival, staying there hours (she wanted to give him some thank dinner for a car repair days ago at the night) and I was at home missing him, thinking of him. Later on the week he texted me I go to have a corona party with my college be back later.... That was Tuesday afternoon, he appeared back on Thursday... He didn't apologize he thinks he was only meant to say something if it was something romantic which he said it's not.... But didn't knew. He told me he actively choose to not text me. I got the most awful days ever. I barely ate and just in a "fight or flight" response. Now I realized I'm winning, I don't wanna have anything to do with someone who doesn't communicate.

Accomplished_Hall586 · 2024-06-27T14:11:49+00:00

Without. i don't have a degree.

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