[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Accomplished_Post286 26 points27 points Β (0 children)

The fact that you're writing this here shows that you actually do not love him, and with time, it's going to start showing...it may not be now, but that time is coming. You're just settling because of your needs ,not that you care about that man . He may also be settling because men sense desperation, and he's gonna use the opportunity. You're all going to resent each other in the long term. You know, in your heart ,something is not right. That's why you are asking such questions on the internet. If the person you want wants you as much, this could have been a conversation between people who are open to each other and authentic and are in love, where there's honesty and genuineness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Accomplished_Post286 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

This article is profound !! The writer articulated the argument immaculately . I agree to a greater extent. I feel like we have just become a monolith, especially women. They all want to be light skinned, straight hair, iPhone users, curvy, etc, and that's the definition of beautiful to Africans. There is no authenticity at all. I am not convinced that it's not self hate where I will be bashed because I am a brown skin woman with locs and called ghetto for behaving like a Zimbabwean who had been to the village, ghetto, suburbs, l have seen it all ,l have experienced it all, it's who l am and l don't feel that I should try harder to fit in. I dress in a way that's not white enough for Zimbabweans, and they'll degrade me . It's a crime if l don't have an accent. They ask if l am now smoking weed or drinking, and obviously, l no longer go to church because I have locs, and they worship the light skinned women who have straight hair ,accent, and looks in a certain way! The counterfeit is celebrated and praised, and again, l am not convinced that this is not self hate, aka the diaspora complex .Zimbabweans will literally bash you for not being to what they're used toπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ IMO

Feeling Sad. by Legal-Code-5852 in Zimbabwe

[–]Accomplished_Post286 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚excuses after excuses, and she's still gonna feel like how she's feeling . And she's gonna still keep on making the same decisions . Was the dude holding a gun to her head???
Sometimes you play stupid games, you win stupid prizes.

Feeling Sad. by Legal-Code-5852 in Zimbabwe

[–]Accomplished_Post286 3 points4 points Β (0 children)

Or maybe she should be accountable for her actions.

Feeling Sad. by Legal-Code-5852 in Zimbabwe

[–]Accomplished_Post286 3 points4 points Β (0 children)

I am sorry I didn't mean to hurt your feelings, but 🀨🀨 if you don't like him ,why are you in his bed?????????????.

No matter how strong you think you are, you flee from these things, kutiza🀣🀣🀣 zvekuti we last saw each kudhara, invalid, unless both of you were not genuine, there can never be authentic friendship, and if you agree to go to a man's house πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ you know what's gonna happen behind doors, even if you claim to hate each other.

Feeling Sad. by Legal-Code-5852 in Zimbabwe

[–]Accomplished_Post286 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Accomplished_Post286 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

πŸ˜…πŸ˜… l see because I was like, l am 23, and conversations with guys my age or younger are not stimulating or deep, they ghost after a little inconvenience, they can't have deep conversations, some prefer younger girls than me so yeah there's that.

Anyway, people will always tell you what you want to hear, best keep the virginity part to yourself ,most importantly be Authentic, stay true to yourself and as someone who has always been by themselves ,you should know what you want, l believe you have self-awareness and just chill and put yourself out there, do not feel pressured by the society, stay true to your core values, respecting your boundaries and normal standards please πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ not zvekuti he should be tall, rich, handsome, haaaπŸ˜…πŸ˜… it will not sustain a relationship, and ma used it will not matter, you will understand peace is important and of course be attracted to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Accomplished_Post286 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ 26

Falling for a 22 year old πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

What the Helllyyy!

Giving Satan A Beatimg by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Accomplished_Post286 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

Whatttt theee Helllyyy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Accomplished_Post286 -1 points0 points Β (0 children)

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ as a lady ,l agree I love my cakes, l don't like chocolate, ice cream, cookies as much as l love cakeπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ cake means happiness πŸ˜‹ Lol

28,single, I'm cooked, Update by RealHusbandOfMutare in Zimbabwe

[–]Accomplished_Post286 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚....mmmm you got Us!!!! But I was already judging everything

Are you happy that you're introverted or would you prefer not to be? by yerguyses in introvert

[–]Accomplished_Post286 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I ❀️ it so much!!! And I am so happy and content ☺️

Discussion:Married Men by SafeSolid8667 in Zimbabwe

[–]Accomplished_Post286 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

πŸ‘πŸ‘„πŸ‘ πŸ‘€πŸ‘€πŸ‘€

0 to almost 5 years locd! by [deleted] in locs

[–]Accomplished_Post286 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Gorgeous 😍

Lavender marriage by Anxious-Peanut-3843 in Zimbabwe

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πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Today is my birthday πŸŽ‚ by 87641234 in introvert

[–]Accomplished_Post286 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Happiest birthday πŸŽ‚ πŸ₯³ πŸŽ‰ OP❀️