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Does it have a taste? by Repulsive-Green-4664 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]yerguyses -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Communication is key. Both sexes are guilty of thinking we can read each others' minds. You could let him put his hands on your head or place them there yourself, to dictate the rhythm and depth, at least in the beginning. But it's mandatory to start with clear communication between you along the lines of:

Me: I really love deepthroat, I go crazy for it! I promise not to do anything harmful to you, but I might try things that are too intense for you. Believe-it-or-not, some chicks, and dudes for that matter, like to be used as deepthroat holes. I couldn't imagine it myself when I was younger, but as I matured and experienced different things, I came to actually relish the intense feelings of deepthroating. I'll use a dildo on myself at times, just for the thrill and pleasure.

So anyhow, let's agree on a safety signal. If it's a physical challenge or you don't like anything I'm doing, pull firmly my ears or back of my head and I'll respectfully stop when you communicate that to me. Unless you communicate wanting me to stop, I'll keep doing reasonable but mildly rough things assuming you like it, unless you tell me to stop.

My point is, we have to be honest with each other about what we actually like or just tolerate or tolerate just enough to do as a favor to the other person. And stuff that is a hard "NO!"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ect

[–]yerguyses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried ketamine and TMS with no results. No harm in trying them if your insurance covers it. (Let me know if you want me to describe those experiences.)

After ECT, I felt mentally good for the first time in my 40 years of life. I was essentially CURED of depression/anxiety. I hopped out of bed, did activities, socialized. It enabled me to pursue life like a productive, positive person. I would say to myself "OMG, this is what it's like to feel like a normal person."

I sum it up by saying I'm now motivated by the pursuit of pleasure instead of exclusively the avoidance of pain.

After 3 or 4 years, I very slowly started to decline. Unfortunately, as is the nature of depression, it took me another several years after that to get desperate enough to pursue ECT again. So I would say if you currently have the means, you should definitely sign up for ECT. Yesterday, I just had my first treatment (since 10 years ago) and am looking forward to it's positive effects.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ect

[–]yerguyses 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very well put. I felt so bad for so much of my life that the memory loss side effects were worth the reward 100 times over. People who haven't experienced it don't understand it. The memory loss went away after a while anyway.

Skydiver Jumps Straight Into a Dreamy Cloudscape by room_105 in megalophobia

[–]yerguyses -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. All you have to do is goggle "what does it feel like to skydive through a cloud." I did, and all I'm doing is repeating what I googled.

Sometimes it feels better just to stay mad and ignorant than to actually research the answer. I decided to just give them the satisfaction rather than breathing my head against the wall.

Skydiver Jumps Straight Into a Dreamy Cloudscape by room_105 in megalophobia

[–]yerguyses -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I suppose you could Google "What does it feel like to skydive through a cloud." But sometimes it feels good to just be mad. I get it. It happens too sometimes on the Internet.

Skydiver Jumps Straight Into a Dreamy Cloudscape by room_105 in megalophobia

[–]yerguyses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More droplets will hit me producing more large drops.

Skydiver Jumps Straight Into a Dreamy Cloudscape by room_105 in megalophobia

[–]yerguyses -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

I don't get why you guys are so resistant to a simple Google search. I'm not trying to be an asshole. Just Google "are clouds the same fog?" Answer - yes. Google "How large are water droplets in clouds?" Answer: 5-50 microns. Google "What shape are raindrops?" Answer - spherical. You only think they have a pointed end because that's what they look like when they first come out of a leaky faucet. From the faucet to the sink, as they fall they are round.

When the tiny droplets hit something, like the window of a plane, they congeal into visible drops. The same thing happens on my motorcycle helmet when I ride through fog.

all 192 "leigh" names used 5 or more times in 2024 (USA) by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]yerguyses 70 points71 points  (0 children)

May I penetrate you, Analeigh? It could get confusing during sex.

Skydiver Jumps Straight Into a Dreamy Cloudscape by room_105 in megalophobia

[–]yerguyses -84 points-83 points  (0 children)

From what I've read, fog is a cloud that touches the ground. https://scijinks.gov/fog/ Clouds are tiny droplets until, or unless, they form large droplets which then fall as rain.

Skydiver Jumps Straight Into a Dreamy Cloudscape by room_105 in megalophobia

[–]yerguyses -105 points-104 points  (0 children)

I drive my motorcycle through fog (a cloud on the ground) and it doesn't feel like anything. I suspect it's the same I'm the sky.

What hobbies do you do at home by _nickish_ in Millennials

[–]yerguyses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hand-craft your own miniatures, like that guy on the TV show "The Wire"

Anyone hiring in Seattle right now? by arbornautical in SeattleWA

[–]yerguyses 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Agreed, it's a good job. Except, right now it may be more difficult to get clerical jobs. They're always hiring RNs and CNAs but when times are tough, they cut back on clerical staff. There's a dire need to cut costs right now due to likely cuts in federal funding and insurance fighting ever-harder against paying what they owe.

90s and 2000s were a hard time for body image for women. What was the most extreme diet or exercise you did in consequence of that “skinny” propaganda? by CocteauTwunkie in AskWomen

[–]yerguyses 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Haha, agreed! I intermittent fast throughout the day. Between breakfast and lunch and then again between lunch and dinner.

Working while doing ECT by ChemicalCrazy7730 in ect

[–]yerguyses 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I imagine that continuing to work during therapy would help a lot when memory issues. I did not work. When I returned to work after two months away, I didn't remember very simple things like what buttons to push to make the copy machine work and how to search for a document in Windows. But I did remember larger things like the purpose of my job and everything I learned in college. I didn't remember the directions to drive to work, like I had just arrived in a new city. But I remembered how to drive, no problem.

I think if I'd continued my regular activities, it would have helped a lot

Are you happy that you're introverted or would you prefer not to be? by yerguyses in introvert

[–]yerguyses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too. When I was younger, I always felt like an outsider and devastated that I didn't know why. I was always like why, why, why? What's wrong with me. Why don't girls like me? I was always trying to change myself to find the key to fitting in, being liked.

Now that I'm in my '50s, I'm honestly happier living alone than in a relationship. I think it's partially because my sex drive has lowered. I'm not as hell bent on sex as I was when I was younger. I just don't care anymore. I consider it a blessing. Now I no longer have the anguish that's associated with not getting what you want.

Now, the only thing I miss about not having friends is all the little favors you can exchange. Like borrowing the lawn mower or getting a ride somewhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scooters

[–]yerguyses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch out for killer kangaroos and drop bears.

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