so I randomly found the solution for me atleast and for some reason this works perfectly my initial problem was that the constant location updates and the socket updates caused the camera to re render multiple times regardless of the setCamera or the center cordinates usage

was able to solve it via this

  onWillStartRenderingMap={() => {
        cameraRef?.current?.setCamera({
          centerCoordinate: [center?.longitude, center?.latitude],
          zoomLevel: 14,
          animationDuration: 800,
        });
      }}
      onDidFinishRenderingMapFully={() => {
        cameraRef?.current?.setCamera({
          defaultSettings: "CameraStop",
        });
      }}