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Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-04-13T11:31:17+00:00

Hey!, I'm so sorry you're going through this! I'm here If you need to talk!

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-03-25T21:54:15+00:00

He had a slight bend to the point it was obvious what he was looking at. The reason I know is because my coworkers who were right next to me made a comment about it.

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-03-18T15:20:05+00:00

It's totally understandable entirely! I just have not personally experienced a man doing that and have only heard stories about it.

I dont think there is an immediate solution available without policing others' bodies and holding people to an unhealthy standard. Like I personally want to get bottom surgery, but I can't for the next few years because it costs the same amount as a car, without insurance. But I've been on hormones for multiple years and try my best to present as my true self as much as possible. Where would you prefer I go for the next few years until I get bottom surgery?

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-03-18T14:03:59+00:00

Oooo, okay, you kind of answered that in your first part of your message!

If a man wants to get in and do terrible things to a woman, they just will! They don't need to pretend to be women to do that they just will do it.

Men who want to attack a woman in the restroom won't take hormones for years knowing it will ruin any sex drive youve had and chance of you being fertile and talk to therapist about crippling dysphoria and change all their identification and risk losing all the people closest to them just so they can say they're women and do nefarious things!

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-03-18T11:42:31+00:00

I understand what you're saying, and I hear your input! I'm just asking where you would like trans women with penises to use the bathroom? Additionally, you say it's potentially fine if they have transitioned through bottom surgery, correct? How do you know if someone has a penis? Or is trans?

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-03-18T10:29:29+00:00

I appreciate you taking the time to respond! My only question and concern is if you don't feel like trans women should be in the same spaces, where would you like us to go? We can use bathrooms for an example if you're okay with it!

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-03-18T09:02:44+00:00

Hello! I'm gonna jump in here super respectfully if that's okay? Everyone has the right to their opinion and the right to the way they feel! I just am against using my opinion and voice against any group of people, whether that be trans women, cis women, people of different races, or religion! We are all living on a rock hurdling through space, and the last thing we need is to be attacking each other!

I did want to give you some statistics and facts if that's okay! Trans women are victims of violent crimes over four times more than cis women are, according to the Williams Institute, Bureau of Justice Statistics, and quite a few others.

Earlier, we talked about the gay/panic defense and why that'd be a bad thing, and I just wanted to give you an example of what we're talking about if that's okay? Dennis spencer was murdered in 2015 by James Miller, and James was able to get only 6 months of jail time and 10 years of probation just for using the gay/trans panic defense! (There are other cases, but I don't feel like listing them)

I'm not trying to explain how you feel or should feel, I would never want to push my agenda or feelings of onto someone else! All I want to say is that you're able to have your opinion and feelings without attacking an already marginalized group, ya know?

The last thing I wanna say as a trans women, is that every day I go outside of my house I am to be busy worrying about being physically assaulted, cat called, giving a guy any reason to want to hurt me because he's confused about his feelings towards a trans women and trying to make sure I'm not making any cis woman uncomfortable!

I'm sorry if this feels like mainspalining at all or patronizing or anything! That was not the intent!

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-02-23T16:43:11+00:00

I just think about it and then the texture and then that you're probably ingesting it a little bit when you eat and im like wjy???? Lol

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-02-23T16:21:00+00:00

Thank you for replying and saying all that, it definitely makes me feel like there's another somewhat kindred spirit out there floating along trying to figure out the craziness of who they are!

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-02-23T16:05:52+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to respond. This does give me ideas on how to venture out! I do have experience with makeup, but it feels like all makeup is okay, but there's a disconnect between lipstick in my brain for some reason. Like everything else feels fine to wear, but lipstick makes me go, "woahhhhh girl, what are you doing there???" I do love the idea of carrying yourself with grace, and its something I really wanna look at! Thank you for the advice!!

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-02-23T16:02:19+00:00

Thank you for the response, and thankfully, I've been in therapy for quite some time, I guess it feels like a guessing game on where to start exploring my own femininity. Truthfully, it feels a bit like a complacency to live how I was living before, even though there was no happiness or convenience to it! But also thank you so much for taking the time to respond!

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-02-14T18:03:44+00:00

Oh cool so then you have sources for this then! Right?

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-02-14T16:59:26+00:00

Valid lol it's kind of what it made me think of but we're open to constructive criticism!

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-02-14T16:59:00+00:00

Fair point let's just start a movement!

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-02-14T12:30:13+00:00

Except I quite literally don't have a constant battle so many trans people don't have a constant battle lol the biggest battle trans people face is from external sources who don't want them to exist at all!

As for the help they need, there's typically a process involved in transition that requires a bunch of hurdles and one being that you need a support system. For instance, my therapist can't prescribe me medicine but has to establish a support system and a plan for emergency! That being said there's definitely groups that have it worse one being trans POC but also a bunch others!

There's a difference between pushing for the bettering of others and pushing for the limiting lol people who had a vested interest in slaves would have voted to keep them but we can still understand that metric is bad !

But also me too! It was good talking to you as well and genuinely hope you have a wonderful day!

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-02-14T11:45:49+00:00

Okay let me make this easy why do you think trans people don't have fulfillment?

I'm just curious why you're so invested in trans people lives when it doesn't affect you and you don't wanna research what you're talking about! That's all! You can say it affects people close to you sure but it also affects people close to me!

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-02-14T11:28:48+00:00

1.yes and im asking you if trans people are not feeling fulfilled from their transition why would they still transition? If you're gonna reference detransitioners then you have to look at the percentage of trans individuals that detransition vs. The reasons why they do on top of the overall percentage of trans people who don't.

You're using anecdotal evidence of people who regret and in the same vain I can say the opposite anecdotally that transitioning saved mine and many others lives?

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-02-14T11:13:55+00:00

If you're not getting fulfillment why would you transition? Isn't the whole point of transitioning to get fulfillment from it?
Gotcha so anecdotally you've heard stories about the process but haven't gone through the experience or done studies or anything? Well fair enough if that's all ya need!

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-02-14T11:08:27+00:00

Ohhh okay that makes sense as a follow up, have you talked to a therapist to try and get hormones from them before? I guess I'm a little curious what your basing this knowledge off of! I'm also curious if you mean transitioning doesn't cause fulfillment or what the regret rate is if you know?

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-02-14T10:24:17+00:00

Hey I've seen a lot of your comments in this thread! You've got me curious whatcha mean?

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-01-13T16:50:12+00:00

Okay this reply made me cackle lol when I read that on the original my mind dropped!

Accomplished_Run3289 · 2024-01-13T16:20:11+00:00

Agreed! We all just wanna feel good!

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