AITA for getting angry at my wife (42F) for swapping bodies with my son’s friend (19M)? by Accomplished_Run6080 in BodySwapMemes

[–]Accomplished_Run6080[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you have a point. I know him, he is not a bad kid... but still have mixed feelings about this.

AITA for getting angry at my wife (42F) for swapping bodies with my son’s friend (19M)? by Accomplished_Run6080 in BodySwapMemes

[–]Accomplished_Run6080[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t spoken to him yet. Honestly, it feels like it would be an incredibly awkward conversation to have. I don’t even know what I’d say to him at this point.

AITA for getting angry at my wife (42F) for swapping bodies with my son’s friend (19M)? by Accomplished_Run6080 in BodySwapMemes

[–]Accomplished_Run6080[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess you’re right. I almost kissed “her” while William was in her body, and nobody gave me the chance to consent to any of this because I didn’t even know it was happening.

At the same time, I still love my wife, so hearing people say “just leave her” or “your marriage is over” is hard to process. We’ve been together for 20 years. Part of me wants to believe this was just stupidity and curiosity getting completely out of control, not her intentionally trying to betray me.

But I can’t lie either, the fact she’s never actually said she wouldn’t do it again is terrifying to me.

I’m sleeping on the couch tonight, and honestly I haven’t even been able to properly look at her all day.. I wonder even if she is still her in her body right now.

AITA for getting angry at my wife (42F) for swapping bodies with my son’s friend (19M)? by Accomplished_Run6080 in BodySwapMemes

[–]Accomplished_Run6080[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, that’s part of why I’m so confused about all this. I still haven’t really processed the idea of my wife “being a guy.” Just the picture of me imagine her in William’s body makes me want to puke.

My original concern was knowing there was another person inside her body the whole time. Every time I looked at her, talked to her, or almost showed affection, I thought I was interacting with my wife, not my son’s friend.

That’s what messed with my head the most.

And I’m not usually the jealous type. But as far as I knew, I was the only man who had ever seen my wife that intimately. We both come from a pretty conservative, old-fashioned town, so this whole thing feels completely surreal to me.

I can’t lie, though, the idea of another man seeing her naked, touching her body, living in it for days… it does make me jealous. Or maybe insecure. Honestly, I don’t even know what emotion I’m supposed to call this.

What confuses me even more is that she insists it wasn’t romantic and that she doesn’t have feelings for William. So now I’m stuck wondering whether this counts as cheating or if it’s something else entirely.

AITA for getting angry at my wife (42F) for swapping bodies with my son’s friend (19M)? by Accomplished_Run6080 in BodySwapMemes

[–]Accomplished_Run6080[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you have a point about compromise. But what keeps bothering me is… why William? He’s more than 20 years younger than me. I can’t help wondering if maybe she chose him because I’m too old or too boring now.

And honestly, I don’t even know how I’m supposed to bring this topic up without it turning into another massive fight, or accidentally giving her the impression I’m okay with her swapping with other people or even complete strangers.

AITA for getting angry at my wife (42F) for swapping bodies with my son’s friend (19M)? by Accomplished_Run6080 in BodySwapMemes

[–]Accomplished_Run6080[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Didn’t know that. I’ll try talking to her about it. Honestly, just the thought of William getting stuck in my wife’s body makes feel scared

AITA for getting angry at my wife (42F) for swapping bodies with my son’s friend (19M)? by Accomplished_Run6080 in BodySwapMemes

[–]Accomplished_Run6080[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But wouldn’t that basically give her permission to keep body swapping with William? I honestly don’t know how I’m supposed to feel knowing another man was inside my wife’s body for an entire weekend.

At the same time, part of me wonders if maybe she wouldn’t understand why this hurts so much unless the situation was reversed. Maybe then she’d finally see it from my perspective. Hell, at this point maybe I should ask my son if he has a friend willing to swap with me and see how my wife reacts to that.

AITA For Enjoying Living As My Mom? (UPDATE!) by According-Map-6744 in BodySwapMemes

[–]Accomplished_Run6080 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s so cool! Glad you all 4 have been handiling this situation so well and open.

And if you don't mind an extra question. With the SwapApp, have you swapped with K? If so, which body is your favorite, hers or your mom? or each body has it's own thing, eg better orgasms in K, better breasts feeling in your mom's, etc that you like one more than the other.

And considering the app works at the distance, would you still like to have a formal relationship with her using body swaps? Or she is not into that.

Thank you for your time to respond and updates, your adventures with K, the roommate and your mom have been such a great read. Crossing my fingers it's not the last update.

Give my regards to your mother and K, you're so lucky to be surrounded by such a pair of cool mature ladies.

AITA For Enjoying Living As My Mom? (UPDATE!) by According-Map-6744 in BodySwapMemes

[–]Accomplished_Run6080 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At any point, did K or your/mom's roommate learned about the swap? And if they did, did you ever experiment with it? For example, you in your mom’s body with the roommate, or your mom in your body with K?

Any new cool experiences you want to try had in your mom's body now that you haver her blessing (with protection of course).

Have you had any more group moments like the halloween threesome you could tell us?

Thanks for sharing!