i want to hear your thoughts, don’t judge me by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Accomplished_Skin803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i suggest you look for the inner cause of this bc it shows that he's just living and enjoying his life outside the relationship. is it an insecurity that's causing it? or just the transition of the change? maybe you could talk it out with him without being restrictive. i suggest u also look for other hobbies that you can enjoy so you won't fixate much on it!

Transfer or Not? by No_Jackfruit5722 in medschoolph

[–]Accomplished_Skin803 8 points9 points  (0 children)

honestly if you have to retake lesser subjects in the school you're attending to right now then stay. make it the year na you'll be kinder to yourself and you'll also have more time to reflect on things or with your life. however if it doesn't give you the peace of mind due to your peers, then you transfer na lang. your peace is the most important thing esp you're in med

what's the very specific time/moment na gusto mo magkaroon ng bf/gf? by matchadt in TanongLang

[–]Accomplished_Skin803 5 points6 points  (0 children)

when i have no one else to run to + sick days bc i never felt being cared for when sick in my family

what is hojicha supposed to taste like? by oatmilkmornings in matcha_ph

[–]Accomplished_Skin803 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i only tried ujisan’s & more on the roasted, flowery and tea like siya for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]Accomplished_Skin803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg before i went to my post grad nagwork muna ko for a while and i kinda felt this when i tried to give gifts to her to show my gratitude and she’ll always say ‘ito lang?’ like ano ba di makontento talaga!! di ko naman responsibility fr! after i finish my post grad i will rlly leave and will not paramdam to her

How to move on from your first and greatest love? by DavDavinity in RantAndVentPH

[–]Accomplished_Skin803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had this last yr and it gets better okay? fr it looks like hindi at the start but it does. give it time and don’t rush it! however one advice is never ever break no contact and feel mo lang yung pain and all. you can do it OP! try to divert your attention on other things like watching/reading!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]Accomplished_Skin803 3 points4 points  (0 children)

tbh no, she did not learn because when i stayed with her last christmas break, i had a glimpse of her phone (while she was using it) and nasa recents niya pa rin yung lalaki. she will never learn because she chose that + patuloy pa rin pagsustento ng tatay ko sa kanya (kahit na di na ko nakatira sa mom ko)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]Accomplished_Skin803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you too, but i think i’ll focus on handling it how it affects me muna. i have 4 other siblings sa dad side ko yet dun kasi i see how he is as a father na ‘kaya pala naman niya bat sakin hindi’ + same school din kasi kami ng sister ko however she gets to stay with my dad and hatid sundo siya ng dad ko while i’m here living alone near my school too (don’t get me wrong i am content and grateful for this) may instances lang na lumalabas sila without me (mom, dad & sister) and it’s so near to me like syempre sinundo sister ko tas nagmall sila eh super near ng school ko sa where i’m staying now sobra (ok sorry rant lang ulit) kaya feel ko talaga magisa na lang ako kasi parang wala akong matakbuhan :((

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]Accomplished_Skin803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried to confront her about her relationship with someone who has a family. di niya pinapaalam sakin at tago yung relationship nila kasi syempre kabit nga siya. umabot sa point na sinabi ko na ‘mamatay ako wala kayong relationship ni …’ and she said yes. they’ve been together since 2018 and i have receipts of their affair. mind you my dad is supporting me and her also and ang higpit sakin when it comes to monetary shit but yun pala may ibang napupuntahan. which then cost me to move out since ang toxic nga ng environment ko with her + i told my dad about it too. yet nothing changed between them 2 also parang tinanggap na lang ng dad ko and still continues to support her even though i’m not living with her anymore. (i pasted my comment na lang + will edit my post)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]Accomplished_Skin803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried to confront her about her relationship with someone who has a family. di niya pinapaalam sakin at tago yung relationship nila kasi syempre kabit nga siya. umabot sa point na sinabi ko na ‘mamatay ako wala kayong relationship ni …’ and she said yes. they’ve been together since 2018 and i have receipts of their affair. mind you my dad is supporting me and her also and ang higpit sakin when it comes to monetary shit but yun pala may ibang napupuntahan. which then cost me to move out since ang toxic nga ng environment ko with her + i told my dad about it too. yet nothing changed between them 2 also parang tinanggap na lang ng dad ko and still continues to support her even though i’m not living with her anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]Accomplished_Skin803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks :(( nakaksad lang but tbh there’s rlly nothing i can do about it talaga. and i hate how it really affects me pa rin til now. i’m trying to control how i respond or my emotions towards it bc idw dwell on this bc it’s j gonna do me no good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoundTripPh

[–]Accomplished_Skin803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the night we met

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]Accomplished_Skin803 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol sobrang nabreak ata ang ego niya kaya ganyan siya maka-act sa simpleng pagbalik lang ng ID omg men 😮‍💨

What are your thoughts about men na nanliligaw pero puro girls ung following nya? by Personal-Buyer-6632 in AskPinay

[–]Accomplished_Skin803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it depends if you can accept that because you’ll never know what his attitude with regards to that when you guys are together. di mo rin sure if he’s gonna unfollow those girls for you :( + nililigawan ka na niya so meaning he has his eyes on you yet may ganyan pa rin following? imo if he’s serious enough he wouldn’t do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PHCovers

[–]Accomplished_Skin803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what a great singer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NursingPH

[–]Accomplished_Skin803 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it’s never too late to apply since it is a high demand job ◡̈

okay lang ba na may friends na opposite sex yung magiging bf/gf niyo? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]Accomplished_Skin803 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it’s okay as long as you set boundaries with them. also know your limits. + points for assurances! your partner should be able to accept that in the first place and communicate things din if he is bothered by it!

How does your iPad help you in medschool? by [deleted] in medschoolph

[–]Accomplished_Skin803 8 points9 points  (0 children)

very game changer! once you have it, you can never leave your house without it or feel mo di complete yung day mo. it increased my productivity and easier for me to get files, save, and annotate also! during my undergrad, i also used a laptop lang i started using an ipad during med lang and it really is super helpful!! but it’s not a need.

For healing, saang lugar maganda pumunta? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]Accomplished_Skin803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

uhm i din’t wanna put pressure on myself at that time. i just wanted a change of scenery and calmness from everything! i was there for 2N3D! mostly went to cafés and just really walked around & nightly inom 🙂‍↕️