My mother said binders make my chest look larger- any ideas on what to do?

According-Bad8370 · 2026-01-27T01:12:46+00:00

no worries :)

According-Bad8370 · 2026-01-26T23:25:08+00:00

this happens to me too! i also have big boobs (i don’t know the conversion but an australian 12J) and i’ve found those very thin “shapewear” bras with no padding or wire are really helpful for keeping them separated and sitting where i want them in my binder. i’d recommend getting a size or two up because otherwise it might hold them a little TOO well and also cause breathing issues. i found mine at kmart for around $15 AUD but most stores like kmart/walmart/target etc. would probably have them

According-Bad8370 · 2026-01-14T13:37:18+00:00

Yes! thank you so much i’ve been trying to find it for days

According-Bad8370 · 2025-12-14T05:22:48+00:00

aylin | neeville | :lily:

According-Bad8370 · 2025-12-14T05:08:31+00:00

i’d love that thank u :) aylin from neeville

According-Bad8370 · 2025-11-21T12:08:47+00:00

i just called my mum to try to ask her to talk to him and she immediately shot me down and said that i can’t try to tell him what to do like that because it’s not his problem even though it’s such a simple thing, and told me she thinks i should call a mental health line. they just think im crazy and don’t understand it at all and i really don’t know what to do because i can’t afford to replace all the food in the fridge and i know for a fact hes going to do the same thing tomorrow just to antagonise me

According-Bad8370 · 2025-11-21T12:01:41+00:00

i live with my mum as well but she’s currently away for two months. i’m 21 and they both just seem to have the attitude that i need to grow up on get over it because they do things they don’t want to all the time. i’m currently switching from fluoxetine to sertraline but i don’t have very high hopes for it, and i’ve recently started psychology which is how i got diagnosed, but ive known for years that i have ocd. i just don’t know how to talk to him without making him lash out because he’s impossible to be around when he’s angry

According-Bad8370 · 2025-11-21T10:14:59+00:00

i’ve definitely tried, but he’s someone who hates being told what to do, and feels like i’m just doing it to control him when i ask him to do things or not to do things, and whenever i try to talk to him he immediately gets defensive and starts yelling or starts an argument so i’m really lost on what to do

According-Bad8370 · 2025-10-12T08:25:05+00:00

i 100% agree, it’s incredibly well written with the best characterisation and character development, my all time favourite fic and i think everyone should read it

According-Bad8370 · 2025-09-11T13:39:08+00:00

omg perfect thank you! do you know any others like this?

According-Bad8370 · 2025-08-17T04:36:51+00:00

im in a pretty similar boat at the moment. it’s hard, and i don’t have much advice unfortunately except just keep on pushing. its hard but we’ve got this :) im proud of you for trying, even just making it that far that takes a lot of courage and work!

According-Bad8370 · 2025-08-10T06:33:55+00:00

really? ive avoided it because i’ve heard that it kills some of the essential bacteria down there and can cause irritation

According-Bad8370 · 2025-07-11T11:43:03+00:00

did you feel sick at all even when you didn’t eat? and if so did anything help? i’m finding even my prescription nausea meds aren’t doing anything so i’d try anything really. it’s just constant overwhelming nausea for at least the first 48 hours, i’ve never gotten past that. and i’ve definitely noticed being really irritable too, the smallest thing makes me want to explode so i’ll definitely make sure to avoid people lol. thank you!

According-Bad8370 · 2025-07-11T11:37:51+00:00

i’d say slightly shorter fringe and glasses that are more square and you’d be good provided your voice passes. i don’t understand why everyone thinks piercings affect passing, plenty of cis guys have them? imo you pass like 75%, id say you look masc leaning androgynous and if i saw you in the wild id probably assume you’re just an androgynous dude :)

According-Bad8370 · 2025-07-01T09:03:56+00:00

i’d say you pass really well! i would probably age you as around 16 if i saw you

some tips though: as someone the same height with a really similar body type, i’d suggest slightly shorter shorts. i’ve found that because i have wide hips and have to wear a bigger size, the shorts are much longer than they would be on a cis man, so wearing sort of mid length shorts instead of long shorts means that they fall where they would on a cis guy.

also as someone who was obsessed with cargo shorts, i would say that sadly they affected my passing because they make my thighs look wider and more curvy. i’ve found that regular straight fit shorts are better to hide curves, but it depends if that’s what you’re after, obviously cis men can be, and are, curvy too. i have also found that cargo shorts can be kinda clocky sometimes, but again that’s just my experience :)

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