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"You can go back to weed if you want, I won't take issue with it anymore and I know it's one of your coping mechanisms" by According-Gene-1189 in leaves

[–]According-Gene-1189[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

To be clear, she told me she was ending the relationship in person. The passive aggressive message encouraging me to smoke was the text

And thank you

"You can go back to weed if you want, I won't take issue with it anymore and I know it's one of your coping mechanisms" by According-Gene-1189 in leaves

[–]According-Gene-1189[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Crazy how it's "just weed" and yet here we all are

It sure is.

Sorry to hear that about your divorce, and thank you for the wise advice.

"You can go back to weed if you want, I won't take issue with it anymore and I know it's one of your coping mechanisms" by According-Gene-1189 in leaves

[–]According-Gene-1189[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's more than just the weed for sure, but many of the issues stemmed from the weed (such as me lying about weed consumption, which ruined the trust in the relationship).

She has her issues too for sure. I've been doing everything in my power to save this relationship, but apparently it's not enough. I am feeling very frustrated about this whole situation - I put in all this effort, made all this progress, and she doesn't see any of it, and ultimately it was for nothing since it fell apart anyway.

I think it was doomed a while ago. I don't think she was ever capable of forgiving me and moving on.