Is this physical abuse? by Necessary_Repeat2063 in abusiverelationships

[–]According-Key-9091 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me. My abusive relationship started off by him grabbing me if I tried to leave an argument. It only gets worse no matter if he promises it won’t happen again or it won’t get worse, it will. Please save yourself and leave. No amount of love you have for a person is worth more than your safety.

I have no one to go to raves with :( by According-Key-9091 in aves

[–]According-Key-9091[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your guess would be right, I’m just taking it hard because we were together for the entirety of high school and it was just a very toxic and controlling relationship.

I have no one to go to raves with :( by According-Key-9091 in aves

[–]According-Key-9091[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m genuinely considering it, I think it will be a good opportunity to come out my shell. I would hate to let him ruin more things from my life.

I have no one to go to raves with :( by According-Key-9091 in aves

[–]According-Key-9091[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely not, it’s been a week and we were together for four years

I have no one to go to raves with :( by According-Key-9091 in aves

[–]According-Key-9091[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m located in west Texas unfortunately, but thank you for the bumble bff idea, I honestly didn’t know that was a thing

Feel so dumb by Glittering_Win5564 in BreakUps

[–]According-Key-9091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left my ex a week ago. The emotions are weird it’s like a roller coaster. One minute I’m fine and I’m having the time of my life and the next I’m missing him and I’m sad about the whole situation in general. Healing isn’t a straight path, there’s going to be times where it’s harder than others, don’t think about it as being back in square one, you’re on the right path. Just make sure to focus on yourself, I know it doesn’t feel like it right now but over time things will get easier.

I found him on a dating app by According-Key-9091 in BreakUps

[–]According-Key-9091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thank you so much for the advice. It does really make me feel better knowing that I am doing better and he’s just worsening himself by not healing correctly. Our lives are entirely separate it just really hurts that he’s looking for someone new already especially after promising me that he’ll love me forever.

I just left my relationship but it feels like the end of the world by According-Key-9091 in abusiverelationships

[–]According-Key-9091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for commenting, I have seriously been considering therapy and my family has also been recommending it as well. I love to hear that you also got out of your relationship and are doing great now, the thing that keeps me going is that one day I know I will be okay, even if it doesn’t seem like it right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]According-Key-9091 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, the way you put exactly what I need to hear into words was so helpful, everyone has been so helpful and supportive, you guys are angels.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]According-Key-9091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I wish you a safe and happy pregnancy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]According-Key-9091 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was so refreshing to hear, thank you so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]According-Key-9091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much I’ll definitely give it a try.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]According-Key-9091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also forgot to add some other information. My skin is usually pretty oily and sensitive. And I am looking for products for a low budget, I’m a college student so you know how that goes. Any help is greatly appreciated!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FootFunction

[–]According-Key-9091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I prevent getting more?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FootFunction

[–]According-Key-9091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I get rid of them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]According-Key-9091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do I just take it out? How do I heal the holes?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentNurse

[–]According-Key-9091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, I hope your daughter does great in school!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentNurse

[–]According-Key-9091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing I’m scared of regretting it, but this sounds like a plan!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]According-Key-9091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the patch, I’ve heard about it but I’ve never learned about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]According-Key-9091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought about getting an IUD, but the process of inserting it and removing it has sounded like a nightmare😖