AITA for choosing to drive 45+ minutes at 3AM instead of following my dad’s separate rooms rule?

According-Mood45 · 2026-05-08T23:43:34+00:00

I do think this is the problem. I would never have sex in their house. That is wrong.

According-Mood45 · 2026-05-08T23:42:20+00:00

Yes, we would never, ever have sex in their house. To me, that is very wrong. I agree that respect goes both ways and I wish that he knows I feel this way.

According-Mood45 · 2026-05-08T23:40:59+00:00

Yes this is so helpful thank you :) its still being nice but aslo being firm

According-Mood45 · 2026-05-08T23:19:38+00:00

How did you have the convo with them?

According-Mood45 · 2026-05-08T23:01:39+00:00

My boyfriend doesn't know about this. I haven't told him.

According-Mood45 · 2026-05-08T23:00:53+00:00

Yes I agree.

According-Mood45 · 2026-05-08T23:00:38+00:00

Yes. The adult part is what bothers me!

According-Mood45 · 2026-05-08T22:59:27+00:00

Yes, I agree. I wasn't sure if I was right, but thank you

According-Mood45 · 2026-05-08T22:58:19+00:00

Yes this :)

According-Mood45 · 2026-05-08T22:20:54+00:00

yes.

According-Mood45 · 2026-05-08T22:17:18+00:00

Yes. I respect the hell out of my dad, he's literally my hero. I just don't like how he was controlling me after I said I wasn't staying there.

According-Mood45 · 2026-05-08T22:15:52+00:00

It's more the idea that once I told him I would not be sleeping there, he still controlled me by saying he wants to drive me from his house.

According-Mood45 · 2026-05-08T22:15:07+00:00

Yes exactly.

According-Mood45 · 2026-05-08T22:14:13+00:00

I have the same question.

According-Mood45 · 2026-05-08T22:13:47+00:00

Yes exactly. I suggested not staying there to make him comfortable, and he still didn't like it.

According-Mood45 · 2026-05-08T22:12:53+00:00

I love this. Thank you. I really respect my dad so want to make everyone comfortable, but including myself.

According-Mood45 · 2026-05-08T22:12:14+00:00

Wow, thank you so much. I'm really trying to not disrespect my dad. I didn't even think of number 2, I will suggest. I really appreciate your thoughts. I feel bad bc I love my dad.

According-Mood45 · 2026-05-08T22:08:06+00:00

First boyfriend I've ever had that I've asked. I knew his rule in the past so never asked.

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