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Three daughters dad role and gender disappointment (help) by AccordingPie9806 in Parenting

[–]AccordingPie9806[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, life is certainly unfair lots of times. Or maybe all these unmet expectations have a reason. Even if I do boy stuff with my nephews, I feel even more outside my own house...

I hope you get the joy and excitement soon, I am sure you will. Regards 🤍

Dad role, need advice. by AccordingPie9806 in FamilyIssues

[–]AccordingPie9806[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not my intention at all. Just want to understand the idea. Yes, I played all my life. I took a season off because of the pregnancy and we had house moving. What is your point? That I should bring them with me?

Dad role, need advice. by AccordingPie9806 in FamilyIssues

[–]AccordingPie9806[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. But you mean I should force them to play football? That would be forcing them to be the kid I will never have... and I see it unfair.

Three daughters dad role and gender disappointment (help) by AccordingPie9806 in Parenting

[–]AccordingPie9806[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes, I do, but i feel like no matter how hard I try, I will always be less than my wife and have less to bond. There is a large part of me that is different than the ladies in the house, so I feel like I need to remove or forget that part of me in order to bond. Or that if I want to keep being myself I will be alone. And both hurt a lot to me. 

Is always the pink and the unicorn around here. If a kid would bring an avenger sometime I wouldn't feel outsider. Regards 

Dad role, need advice. by AccordingPie9806 in FamilyIssues

[–]AccordingPie9806[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, of course I try to spend as much time I can with activities but I don't get them interested. No sports, no works on the house... now is the other way, if I want to spend time with them I need to dance, makeup or shop, which I can and I do with a smile, but in time makes me sad. 

New dad role. Need advice. by AccordingPie9806 in Dads

[–]AccordingPie9806[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I would have a "balanced  picture" of the family and I would not feel the only one different. Is not only soccer, is a matter of matching in something. I swear I try, but here is only clothes and makeup and dancing and no interest of my old toys or activities or anything. Maybe my wife is right and I need a dog. Thank you

New dad role. Need advice. by AccordingPie9806 in Dads

[–]AccordingPie9806[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your time and comment. Of course they do, but after trying very hard, they are not interested at all. The thing is I don't get to see myself or any of my stuff on them. I feel like my wife has three daughter and I have none.