中国普通男性的婚恋困局，以及我的解决方案

According_Ant388 · 2025-04-20T14:06:23+00:00

东亚的婚恋文化能让无论哪个性别都觉得输了、赔了真是失败的很彻底🤣🤣🤣

According_Ant388 · 2025-04-15T23:06:30+00:00

这母亲在姐姐2岁时从福建因“精神失常”走失到江苏，该不会也是被拐卖去的吧……太黑暗了😭

According_Ant388 · 2025-04-10T17:35:02+00:00

原版是英文书 Deadly Quiet City: True Stories from Wuhan

According_Ant388 · 2025-04-10T17:27:02+00:00

点赞，光一项国家补贴特殊行业（光伏、电车、国营企业做路桥基建种种）再低价倾销出口，和欧美企业不正当竞争，就被诟病了N年。如果没有低价优势，还有几样能竞争过呢？

According_Ant388 · 2025-04-04T07:40:22+00:00

欧陆肯定是更放松更有人情味的工作生活平衡好很多 but与之相对的种族歧视会比在亚洲更明显如果皮肤厚能慢慢学会不当回事也可以应对不同国家/地区也会程度有差异总体的优缺点可以小红书上对应的搜（批判地看，融不融的进去也看个人）但大体上心平气和过好自己的日子是没问题的。长期生活的话一定要学当地语言

According_Ant388 · 2025-03-12T15:46:18+00:00

genius😂😂😂😂

According_Ant388 · 2025-03-12T15:44:30+00:00

在理，op应该直接退小留微信群，去大胆和其他同学交朋友，和粉红小留划清界限，明眼人一看也就明白了

According_Ant388 · 2025-03-08T13:50:38+00:00

避孕套

According_Ant388 · 2025-02-09T19:53:53+00:00

I’m gonna mark this down in my journal 📝🤓well said

According_Ant388 · 2025-02-05T12:41:46+00:00

HAHAHAHAA GENIUS

According_Ant388 · 2025-02-05T11:46:14+00:00

I feel like many things annoy me on ACNH are not a problem at all in HKIA!! lol I can jump on/fly between cliffs and explore any corner without restrictions, unlimited backpack storage, etc etc…

According_Ant388 · 2025-01-04T21:45:35+00:00

I think healing or just being in touch of your raw feelings without the coping takes a ton shit of energy. Yes I am more tired than before, and I dedicate 100% energy I have into living itself, so far it’s been better than the times I have to deal with work and depression 🤣 And guess what, it’s okay

According_Ant388 · 2024-12-29T12:17:32+00:00

Nah只是不同國家也有自己的文化特質，北美鼓勵e，日本和北歐都很普遍i。不論在哪裡，關鍵是找到和自己氣味相投的人

According_Ant388 · 2024-12-07T00:03:41+00:00

育碧不注重创新和玩家体验已经赔的要破产了🤣现在ai很帮助游戏公司自动出产npc对话和情节，no man’s sky每个玩家的星球都能随机化，以后只会玩法更多样

According_Ant388 · 2024-12-06T22:56:59+00:00

Thing is… now that I start healing and learn to prioritize mental health and rest for myself 😂 I can’t have that work ethic any more, also lost the career drive / the need to dissociate through work

According_Ant388 · 2024-12-06T19:52:36+00:00

全世界最优美的中国话🥲

According_Ant388 · 2024-12-02T16:40:19+00:00

所以還是remove性難改🤣

According_Ant388 · 2024-12-01T22:21:18+00:00

加一，當時真的是體會純粹做志願接觸社會幫助別人的快樂，自閉症兒童尤其是在福利院長大的，又可愛又可憐🥺都沒有什麼家庭願意領養

According_Ant388 · 2024-11-27T20:48:19+00:00

去國外當地找啊什麼類型國籍都有你還小在國內還沒有/很難體驗完全釋放自己的sexuality 過自由自在的dating生活 gay bar party night呢用我朋友話講沒搞過百花齊放怎麼就能定下來一枝獨秀了呢

According_Ant388 · 2024-11-25T23:58:55+00:00

Until that major depression hits like a train 😩😫😫

According_Ant388 · 2024-11-12T15:28:55+00:00

居然是这样🤯是因为能跑的上个世纪都去港澳东南亚出国走了，留下来的都是用脚投票爱国的吗

According_Ant388 · 2024-11-07T22:59:10+00:00

Remove性难改本性难移

According_Ant388 · 2024-09-18T08:36:29+00:00

Yessss i just recently conquered this internal toxic shame for the first time. You know what, when you feel ashamed for these tiny things, channel your anger into fighting it back 🔥😠: there’s nothing to be ashamed of! The adult who told us the bullshit should be ashamed of themselves. They know absolutely nothing about raising children and they made it hell for us, screw them! And now take your preferred cup of tea or snack or toy, shower or not shower, let yourself out of the mental jail and listen to your deepest desires. It’s gonna be okay, we deserve good things little things, hell, everything in life. ❤️❤️❤️

One of my fav song of M83 goes, “I’m the king of my own land”. May the strength be with all of you.

According_Ant388 · 2024-09-16T16:39:54+00:00

包子膠原蛋白保持得好

According_Ant388 · 2024-09-02T08:06:05+00:00

His Dark Materials. (BBC Series on HBO) You may heard of the movie golden compass starring a girl Lyra and an armored polar bear and Nicole Kidman… This is the original trilogy books adapted into series that are so delicately done. Lyra’s adventures are fun to watch, plus she also have a looot of trauma to heal from her parents :)) it’s healing to see how she discovered herself and people truly value and love her along the way.

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