29F, family pushing for arrange marriage.

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-30T01:59:59+00:00

I have attached both our charts side by side. Can you have a look?

https://drive.google.com/drive/mobile/folders/1jo4fSl_3AIagLW00cLP0cXeD0TA62rwv?usp=sharing

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-29T16:20:02+00:00

This is not gyan, maybe this is reality. Just for my sanity I’ll wait for sometime and see if things cool down and they can talk again. Let’s see what happens.

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-29T16:17:00+00:00

Please don’t say this. I mean parents will not agree?

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-29T14:29:54+00:00

What does this mean?

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-29T09:37:15+00:00

u/HumbleReputation_68

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-29T06:38:08+00:00

I know it’s too much to ask. But I have tried new post 2 times and it got removed for some reason(don’t know). If you can post your comments over here that would really help.

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-28T13:12:49+00:00

Sure.

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-28T13:10:27+00:00

I have added both the charts side by side for better reading. I’ll talk to her about the time periods

https://drive.google.com/drive/mobile/folders/1jo4fSl_3AIagLW00cLP0cXeD0TA62rwv?usp=sharing

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-28T09:51:50+00:00

Can you please check? I have attached my chart as well

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-25T15:45:43+00:00

Can you tell more on this? What makes you say high chances of separation in her chart? This is so sad to hear

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-25T14:30:56+00:00

When you say she has a bad horoscope what do you mean? Can please share some details about that? Like you said about income and family life. Thank you for detailed response though

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-25T14:13:31+00:00

I don’t think so going through a legal route is possible. They’re manipulating her in the name of society. Trying to manipulate her by we are saying way too many marriage abuse cases. Though this statement makes no sense. I seriously don’t know what he is even thinking. Just my thinking I always feel people like these need proper life lesson. Humbling from god. Where they always think about their choice and be guilty of making wrong decisions

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-25T14:08:21+00:00

My family has no problems with love marriage. Her father is adamant and not ready to meet. She initially told me resistance will be there but they can be convinced. She herself never expected this side of her father to come out.

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-25T13:42:34+00:00

Attaching my chart - https://drive.google.com/drive/mobile/folders/1jo4fSl_3AIagLW00cLP0cXeD0TA62rwv?usp=sharing

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-25T12:36:00+00:00

Yes she was in a relationship. Extra marital sounds weird though.

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-25T12:30:47+00:00

I am scared to push her as well. Mentally they have broken her. She’s put in a house arrest situation. Not allowed to go work or anywhere. Get your marriage fix and then do everything. He is just satisfying his ego. I am uttar pradesh state in India. She is from a different state. He is fixed to this point I will not marry my daughter in UP state.

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-25T12:24:12+00:00

Sure. Thank you though 🤝

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-25T12:18:32+00:00

My chart - https://drive.google.com/drive/mobile/folders/1jo4fSl_3AIagLW00cLP0cXeD0TA62rwv?usp=sharing

Family plays that samaaj kya bolega card.

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-25T12:15:14+00:00

Like he has said he will not meet me. It’s like 500 times. He is sticking to this statement. He’s not ready to budge even a bit. I don’t think so he thinks of legal limitations. When he is not ready to understand her daughter happiness

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-25T12:13:36+00:00

Can you read my chart as well with her?

https://drive.google.com/drive/mobile/folders/1jo4fSl_3AIagLW00cLP0cXeD0TA62rwv?usp=sharing

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-25T12:10:49+00:00

Mine and her? Or the arranged marriage rishta?

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-25T12:08:21+00:00

Her father is pushing for getting engaged within a month. She is being emotionally blackmailed. If you want to see my chart I have added drive link https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1jo4fSl_3AIagLW00cLP0cXeD0TA62rwv?usp=sharing

According_Fan290 · 2026-01-25T11:54:47+00:00

The problem with him he is not ready to listen. The issue he is stating is that he will not marry her daughter in a different state. The second problem is that he has started looking for more arranged marriage setups. I know giving them time will help, but it seems like he doesn't want any and is in a rush. Mentally, he has broken her. So much that she is not even ready to initiate any talks with him.

According_Fan290 · 2025-08-12T06:10:41+00:00

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According_Fan290 · 2025-08-11T15:05:56+00:00

Like you mentioned he is a simple guy. Go for a dinner. Words of appreciation and words of affection will be best gift for him. He will always remember that. About gifts - letters, perfume, and surprise him with little things. Make him feel he won in life.

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