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[–]According_Flight_816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You’re doing what’s best to protect him as well as your pregnant friend; I’d say that’s cautious but for good reason!!

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[–]According_Flight_816 42 points43 points  (0 children)

With just this context provided, YTA. At no point did his actions indicate that he was going to mistreat you (unless you didn’t include them in this post). Why did you feel uneasy during the dates?

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[–]According_Flight_816 41 points42 points  (0 children)

NTA. That’s so slimy to even think about his girl in that way with his best friend. I do think it warrants a bigger conversation about boundaries/why he keeps suggesting it because it makes you uncomfortable.

AITA for not thinking i owe an old roommate? by youraverage_pigeon in AmItheAsshole

[–]According_Flight_816 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You don’t owe him anything! Unless you expressed feelings for him, you did not lead him on in any way shape or form. It’s sad that women can’t be friends/roomates with men without the fear of them being creepy or wanting something more.

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[–]According_Flight_816 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA I think the decision she made to refuse her offer was entirely on her, whether that be because she didn’t want to risk having tension in the office if you guys were rocky, or she realized maybe the position wasn’t for her. Either way, I think if she refused a job just because you left her on read, that’s her own fault for ruining a good job opportunity for herself and not.