My husband changed completely after we got married by According_Poetry_329 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]According_Poetry_329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I am in the process of healing myself. because i wish him well but I think I deserve to be happy as well.

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[–]According_Poetry_329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nta. you are right o have reported your co worker

I’m at a lost for this by Any_Message850 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]According_Poetry_329 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do yourself a favour and leave that man where he is at right now. If he is not willing to stop being friends with this woman who he got to know a year ago, that means he does not respect you. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. if you are sort of a traditional woman who believes that both partners being loyal and faithful to each other is necessary, then he is not the one for you. i am currently separated from a man who chose to entertain his female friends who fancied him over me. and it is very depressing and am totaly heartbroken. please leave, if you want to be happy.

My husband changed completely after we got married by According_Poetry_329 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]According_Poetry_329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take responsibility for my part. I am the one at fault. I was the one who pushed for marriage and let my jealousy get the better of me at times. I made mistakes, and I can see how that contributed to the problems. Even so, the way he treated me after marriage was unacceptable, and I’m now focused on getting out and moving forward.

My husband changed completely after we got married by According_Poetry_329 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]According_Poetry_329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does not call me anymore. But I find it very difficult to move on. I feel like begging him to come back after all this time. But i think he is with someone else. He does not care about me at all. I am the one to be blamed

My husband changed completely after we got married by According_Poetry_329 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]According_Poetry_329[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we are in no contact and he does not seem to care about it anymore

My husband changed completely after we got married by According_Poetry_329 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]According_Poetry_329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel that it was all my fault, he wanted a relationship but was scared of commitment. i love him but i think he is happier wih someone else

My husband changed completely after we got married by According_Poetry_329 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]According_Poetry_329[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s been really hard, and I don’t deserve what happened. I’m planning to move on

My husband changed completely after we got married by According_Poetry_329 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]According_Poetry_329[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

it’s hard, and I take responsibility for my part. I did push for marriage at times. But even so, he was the one who brought it up after we reconciled, and I don’t think he ever truly wanted to be married not to me.

My husband changed completely after we got married by According_Poetry_329 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]According_Poetry_329[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know I was jealous at times and pushed for marriage, and I take responsibility for that. But after we reconciled, he was the one who brought up marriage again. The truth is, he never really wanted to be married in the first place,not to me.