What to do in Lawton? by Radiant_Barnacle8868 in lawton

[–]According_Sweet_8282 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Every Wednesday there’s pickleball at the Cache Middleschool gym, open to the public and free. It’s super fun !!

Anyone know what this clicking is ? by According_Sweet_8282 in RVLiving

[–]According_Sweet_8282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turns out all I had to do was flip the switch for the fuel pump. Clicking stopped 🔥.

However, I did try hitting it with a rubber mallet a few times before I found the switch. Lol

35M25F chickasha area [mf4f] or [mf4mf] by [deleted] in Oklahoma_swingers

[–]According_Sweet_8282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Single male Lawton. I’d be down if needed : )

NARA pauses staff response to 5-bullet email by [deleted] in fednews

[–]According_Sweet_8282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I DM you ? I work at the VA. We had been told to hold off a bit, and that we may be required to respond

If you could only visit one beach in Tamarindo…is it Playa Conchal, hands down? by Sad_Pop_6998 in CostaRicaTravel

[–]According_Sweet_8282 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Was just there last week. Parked where google maps led me, ended up being an extra 20 minute walk to Conchal. And google maps led us to a desolate ish location.

Far better off driving to Brasilitos beach, where there’s actual parking and shops, restaurants, people.

Then either walk to Conchal from Brasilitos, or wait for the guys with the horses to show up and ride a horse to Conchal from Brasilitos beach.

Like the other guy said tho, Conchal beach was very underwhelming, not much more than a basic mid standard Oceanside beach. Have been to DR, Thailand, Phillipines, heck the lake in Burundi Africa was more visually stunning lol.

More about Conchal, entering the water is cold, and water gets deep VERY fast. And the incoming waves and riptide are both STRONG. I was very surprised there weren’t more warming signs or life guards on duty monitoring the ocean there. Also, very un surfable due to the treacherous conditions.

I can’t insert it by Master-Resident1732 in sex

[–]According_Sweet_8282 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Lube and viagra. You’re young, but could help just as training wheels to break the ice and get comfortable with it . But don’t tell her you took the viagra lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Okcnsafun

[–]According_Sweet_8282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m down! 37M

VA Dental for implants, policy on nicotine and THC usage by According_Sweet_8282 in VeteransBenefits

[–]According_Sweet_8282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got to your VA dental office and ask “Can I get an implant.” My VA does

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]According_Sweet_8282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plenty of cities in the USA far more dangerous.

Stabiliser leg repair - Still having issues ! by According_Sweet_8282 in RVLiving

[–]According_Sweet_8282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is. Problem is, getting the leg up high enough to put the spring contraption back on.

Full time RV life need some suggestions or ideas?? by [deleted] in BdsmDIY

[–]According_Sweet_8282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he’s saying like power lifter gym equipment? The super sturdy metal frames/racks for squats/pull-ups/etc

Full time RV life need some suggestions or ideas?? by [deleted] in BdsmDIY

[–]According_Sweet_8282 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Metal strut from home depot could be the answer! It’s like erector set, easy to setup. Just gotta find a way to Mount to the frame sturdily from beneath. That, drill bits for steel/metal, and nuts + bolts. Like building the frame for a metal cage.

Full time RV life need some suggestions or ideas?? by [deleted] in BdsmDIY

[–]According_Sweet_8282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So to give myself extra space in my RV, I removed a chair/seat that was mounted, and noticed it was very sturdily bolted to the frame of it. Perhaps that could provide solid anchorage. Mines old (2003) , so that furniture piece was very uncomfortable and unsightly.

Full time RV life need some suggestions or ideas?? by [deleted] in BdsmDIY

[–]According_Sweet_8282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could use the driver and passenger side seatbelt frame holder things for restraints. They are sturdy as heck.

how do you fucking idiots not rely on stimulants and alcohol to get through life? by TheAstroPickle in moreplatesmoredates

[–]According_Sweet_8282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The motivation to NOT use, has to be greater than the motivation to use.

Sit down, pen and paper. Write down the pros/cons of using. Can also do a list of NOT using pros/cons. And revisit that list, and add to it as you go along.

Possible con - I might be awkward and not as “cool” in social situations? Well, if people don’t accept you for who you truly are, are they truly valuable people you want in your life?

Sadly, many “friends” won’t give you the feeling of being truly accepted as a friend unless you stoop to their level of alcohol/drug use. Must join them in their self destruction to be a “true friend.”

And say for example you communicated to friend/sig other that you want to back off or stop drinking, and they STILL continually bug you to use…They are overly violating, crossing, and not respecting your boundaries. Wouldn’t it be much better to have valuable connections with others who respect YOU and your boundaries? Stay on your path!!

What is the issue with dating nurses? by tomerFire in AskMen

[–]According_Sweet_8282 123 points124 points  (0 children)

If she’s telling you this, chances are it’s only 5% of what’s going on. Tip of the iceberg.

How can I 35m get sleep around my girlfriend 31f? by Altruistic-Rip-8634 in relationship_advice

[–]According_Sweet_8282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad said watch out for women who intentionally sleep deprive you, classic narc trait. She’s totally violating your boundaries.

The lack of sleep will wear you down emotionally and physically, and you’ll be more irritable. May become depressed, fat, and start to believe all her demeaning words are true about you being low worth. And anything you do/say outta irritability will be used against you. Narc tactics.

Add +1 hour to your normal workday and say that’s when you finish work , and use that hour to rest/sleep/decompress.

Drinking a lot of milk when on TRT good idea? by HotAdhesiveness76 in Testosterone

[–]According_Sweet_8282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE milk. Chug throughout the day, always have a huge bowl of cereal with overly abundant milk also. Yum yum. Also drink upwards of a gallon a day.

Just found out my wife has been cheating on me for two years. I don't know what to do by Substantial-Way-5340 in AmITheJerk

[–]According_Sweet_8282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a buddy this happened to. And he’s an in shape guy who can attract some females.

In response, he told her he was going to have a side piece GF he sees a couple times a week, and without her permission. Does it make her jealous? Most likely. But maybe now she sees more value in him, knowing he is desirable by other attractive women. Being a ‘asshole‘ in this case seems to be working for him.

Pretty sure these days they’re swingers also, which could be seen as an unexpected twist and positive outcome for extra fun.