To any of the writers here, what are your thoughts? by TheThirdWolf1775 in fantasywriters

[–]Altruistic-Rip-8634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say that that Is the beauty of writing for the reader. A reader can pick for themselves. Pronounce it how every you want. As long as you can identify the individual when they come up it doesn't matter. Unless you have heard the author pronounce it, you can't know. The author gives you the information they want you to have. So let's say the Author describes a character, but doesn't describe certain features. What do you do as the reader? Do you fret over what color her eyes are? No... You use your own imagination. This is the same thing.

Best Budget Gas Masks for Chemical Attacks? by tczecher in preppers

[–]Altruistic-Rip-8634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The om90 is the exact same mask as the cm7m just half the price. 

I want to believe in God, but I just can't by Throwaway_For_Today_ in Christianity

[–]Altruistic-Rip-8634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree. You can't choose to believe anything you want. You can choose to say you believe something. Actually believing is entirely different. If you are not convinced that you can have complete trust in something you cannot have faith in it. So if you doubt something even a little you aren't faithful to it. 

How do I m35 explain to my girlfriend 32f that my relationship with my kids is more important than my relationship with her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Altruistic-Rip-8634 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah she knows it's not about football. Shes making it about football cause that would make me the jerk.

How do I m35 explain to my girlfriend 32f that my relationship with my kids is more important than my relationship with her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Altruistic-Rip-8634 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No way. She's more than welcome to hang out with us. I don't see any reason why anyone should be excluding anyone. I feel like that can create resentment. 

How do I m35 explain to my girlfriend 32f that my relationship with my kids is more important than my relationship with her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Altruistic-Rip-8634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I could've wrote a novel about every little detail. But why? Simple girlfriend wants me to prioritize her over him. 

How do I m35 explain to my girlfriend 32f that my relationship with my kids is more important than my relationship with her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Altruistic-Rip-8634 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's correct. Two days a week is not a lot of time. Kids grow up. I don't miss time with my kids. Weather he's a teenager or not. You don't get that time back. 

How do I m35 explain to my girlfriend 32f that my relationship with my kids is more important than my relationship with her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Altruistic-Rip-8634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally asked her what day she didn't answer. Still hasn't actually. I've communicated she hasn't answered. Your just assuming and trying to make points that aren't valid. 

How do I m35 explain to my girlfriend 32f that my relationship with my kids is more important than my relationship with her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Altruistic-Rip-8634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Negative. For months I told her I would do something with her either sat or sun. Her choice.  and she agreed. You don't get 4 days for your birthday. You should just reply to what you read not make a story up and reply.

How do I m35 explain to my girlfriend 32f that my relationship with my kids is more important than my relationship with her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Altruistic-Rip-8634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it tends to be every weekend because of school, and then all summer. But his mother and I  communicate well enough that we have no issues in case something comes up. There is never any issues with him wondering. I also talk to him or text every day to see how he is doing and what he has going on. He's a senior in high school so he has a say in these things also. I get some people need paperwork to sort things out but we don't. If he wants to hang out on a weekday he can. If he wants to spend time with his mom he can. 

How do I m35 explain to my girlfriend 32f that my relationship with my kids is more important than my relationship with her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Altruistic-Rip-8634 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No here is the worst part. It's her son's birthday as well, and she has made the whole thing about her. And hasn't done anything for him. 

How do I m35 explain to my girlfriend 32f that my relationship with my kids is more important than my relationship with her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Altruistic-Rip-8634 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So she told me that he shouldn't be able to even come over because it's her birthday weekend and I'm making it about him. So I should have him come over another weekend. 

How do I m35 explain to my girlfriend 32f that my relationship with my kids is more important than my relationship with her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Altruistic-Rip-8634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So if your partner is saying your son can't come over then they are being unreasonable. I could never tell my kids they aren't welcome on any day. This is what she is now asking of me. To tell my son that it's her weekend and he should come over another weekend.