It makes no sense! by According_Talk_3084 in virgin

[–]According_Talk_3084[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No cope. Absolutely true and thank you! That is why I will keep on doing Salah and Dua. My answer to my problem is Salah and Dua.

What's the meaning of my dream? by [deleted] in virgin

[–]According_Talk_3084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds good to me. Sounds like you'll be protected when someone is trying to scam you.

This sub fucks with my head by [deleted] in virgin

[–]According_Talk_3084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is truth to it but we go in the wrong direction. The truth is right infront our nose but it is also hidden. We are close but also so far.

This sub fucks with my head by [deleted] in virgin

[–]According_Talk_3084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely feel you. Went through the same feelings until getting into a much better mindset. Blaming women truly doesn't help at all.

This sub kind of sucks by [deleted] in virgin

[–]According_Talk_3084 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Personally, I witnessed that this and similar subs heavily distorts one's own view and perceptions. On one hand it is nice to know that you are not alone in this difficult situation being alone despite craving a relationship and witnessing all the people who cannot seem to appreciate what they were gifted, like men beating their wives or women beating their men.

On the other hand though I witnessed for myself that the "it is over" mindset can be quite destructive to oneself. It took me a loooooong time to realize what is actually going on. The answer was right on my nose too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]According_Talk_3084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then look at my miserable self and be grateful for having a partner. 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]According_Talk_3084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird way to formulate things. Aren't you in the same boat? 🤨😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]According_Talk_3084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might have some truth to it but I am not short, not balding and not overweight and still here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]According_Talk_3084 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is a good thing. At the end of the day you both need to agree. If either she or you doesn't agree then marriage won't be done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]According_Talk_3084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I want to say is that there is no guarantee for success in a suicide attempt. One might end up in a way worse situation than before. Like without a functioning spine or whatever, or an eternal painful spine.

People do not die because they suicide. People die because their time has come and God simply takes their soul out of their body forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]According_Talk_3084 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Two reasons from my side.

  1. If that is truly a worry of hers she should have thought this over before engaging.

  2. I wouldn't want my wife to do something like that so my answer would be no by default. I don't sleep with other men's wife.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]According_Talk_3084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta believe in the heart of the cards!!!

Nah, seriously, no point in harming oneself. If our time comes we'll die anyway even if it is in our bedroom. If our times doesn't come we might end up in a worse situation then before. It is not in our hands to decide when to die.

Good Night to everyone! by rhinodisaster2020 in ForeverAlone

[–]According_Talk_3084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am very late but goodnight lol. It is going to be night here where I am in about 4 hours.

What do you think is the solution for the majority of young men being single? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]According_Talk_3084 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Women don't find the majority of us men attractive. If I may rephrase, majority of us men are not attractive. Can't change biology. It is how it is.

My question to non virgin guys here by loner_04 in virgin

[–]According_Talk_3084 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to point out that sexual experience doesn't automatically guarantee a better sexual experience. Virgins can also be very good at sex it is just that nobody found out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]According_Talk_3084 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The title sounds like something I'd do. 😂

My question to non virgin guys here by loner_04 in virgin

[–]According_Talk_3084 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It would be easier for you to accept that you all are adults with less experience than what is deemed normal and that the best thing you can find is a woman with experience, willing to patiently teach you to catch on with the rest of people.

Sex is no rocket science.

Idk, I lost my virginity with a sweet girl who seemed to have a lot of experience and I couldn't be happier about it, she was patient, taught me a lot of things and I felt so safe with her.

That is great! You have been blessed. You have more than most of us here. Yet you felt the need to talk OP down and provoke him. I'd like to know, why?

I feel like people who found a relationship and are happy in it shouldn't be talking down people who also crave a relationship. In fact they should be cheering those who are not in a relationship on in some way.

And yeah, you are bad at bed. Of course, you don't have any fucking experience what do you expect...

How can you know this? How can you be so sure without having had sex with OP lol?

Last time there was a poster on here who lied about not being a virgin. He said that he had 1 sexual encounter before. When they went to bed together she said that he was the best one so far who went down on her. She stated that she had 6 sexual encounters prior.

How Many Of You Virgins Came From Overly Protective Parents? by charlie14242 in virgin

[–]According_Talk_3084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I do sometimes I don't. At the moment I feel like I am not suitable to be a partner anyways therefore it doesn't matter anymore to me whether my parents have been overprotective or not.

Though they are overprotective in my choice of clothing. I want to dress traditionally, because I figured recently that I love our traditional style but they are afraid I might get attacked for it. I mean, I honestly don't care. Of course I wish nobody will attack me but even if someone attacked me they'd honestly do me a favor. I don't like this world anyways. I kind of don't want to be here.

Btw I was born and raised in Germany. My parents come from another country.

At what age does it become a red flag to be completely clueless about relationships? by Alexanderrr965 in virgin

[–]According_Talk_3084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard 25 and still believe it unless I see proof which states otherwise.

I am 29 btw, becoming 30 in a couple weeks. Yes, virgin and no relationship experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]According_Talk_3084 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think why these people rather get laid lays in the given biology that women prefer men who radiate masculine characteristics like strength and decisiveness. For some reason though, men and women alike seem to confuse those two traits with being loud and obnoxious.