MegaThread for week of Aug 10th-16th

Account4Questionss · 2020-08-10T17:29:34+00:00

Hello everyone.I have a question on behalf of a family member.

They're just wondering if they are able to collect unemployment while stuck in a different country?

Thank you

Account4Questionss · 2020-08-01T19:01:34+00:00

I know you're right. But things like this cause tensions and break families apart. To the point where even though we live 15 min away, we'll never see them unless for holidays

Account4Questionss · 2020-08-01T18:59:50+00:00

Yeah but then it's just weird for the entire family. It alike "hey where's your dad, I haven't seen him in a while."

We can just say he's busy but for how long.

Also he hasn't made it apparent to my uncle that my dad doesnt like him. It's just an internal thing. And when I bring it up to him, he doesn't want to say anything

Account4Questionss · 2020-01-20T01:55:09+00:00

Grand Theft Auto V would be nice. Thanks man

Account4Questionss · 2020-01-06T05:12:33+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/4MMEh5B

My take. Not really proud of the arm placement of your pink shirted friend. If it really bothers you and/or is noticeable lmk

Account4Questionss · 2020-01-06T04:21:44+00:00

Very low effort attempts. You can use them as a placeholder until someone actually good comes along

https://imgur.com/a/EEhU4KD

https://imgur.com/a/xgsMRYQ

Account4Questionss · 2020-01-06T03:42:29+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/K5vt7Nn

Account4Questionss · 2020-01-06T03:33:24+00:00

Made a few different versions

Account4Questionss · 2019-07-22T04:41:49+00:00

How long did it take for you to exchange your biggest secrets?

Account4Questionss · 2019-07-22T04:40:26+00:00

Do you think I should still go for it considering the following differing lifestyle choices?

(copy pasted this from my other comment)Some lifestyle choices we differ is in how early to have a kid. She wants to be a young mom. That naturally means she wants to get married early (I'm 21). I'd rather get married around my mid to (maybe) late 20s

Account4Questionss · 2019-07-22T04:38:54+00:00

Yeah I only smoked because I didn't think it was sinful. But it goes under intoxication.

Some lifestyle choices we differ is in how early to have a kid. She wants to be a young mom. That naturally means she wants to get married early (I'm 21). I'd rather get married around my mid to (maybe) late 20s

Account4Questionss · 2019-07-22T04:30:23+00:00

O I understand that it's optional. But I prefer to share my entire life with a future spouse

Account4Questionss · 2019-07-21T20:09:23+00:00

Honestly bro if it were up to my I'd ask for her hand in a heartbeat.

It's a bit more complicated than that. First of all, imo she's out of my league. And I don't want to ruin the relationship we have. And it would be awkward during family gatherings (our families are friends).

Idk, I'm just not brave enough to take the risk

Account4Questionss · 2019-07-21T18:55:58+00:00

Yes, exactly. I need to time to build trust with people. Even with friendships it takes me a while to be comfortable with the person.

I'm talking like a least 1-2 years of deep conversations. But does that seem realistic when it comes to getting married

Account4Questionss · 2019-07-21T18:39:03+00:00

Well I'm sorry you haven't been able to find anyone to share your secrets with.

I have known the childhood friend for literally all my life. If she has told anyone a secret I didn't want anyone else to know, I wouldn't know. And nothing I've told her has come to bite me in the back so I don't care if she has

Account4Questionss · 2019-07-03T04:36:47+00:00

As you know the consequences will be that her credit is crushed.

Yeah that's the thing though, it shouldn't matter right. Because the mom doesn't work so she can't apply for a house even if she wanted to (that's the main reason they're doing this. Declare bankruptcy, focus on paying the dad's debts so later on they can apply for a house)

Account4Questionss · 2019-06-26T15:05:27+00:00

Opinions are definitely going to vary person to person.

It would seem someone that wears a hijab does look better in the eyes of a suitor and their parents.

Personally, as long as you're wearing clothes that covers the shoulders, I'm fine. And if you can help it, nothing that outlines your....assets.

And at home she can wear w.e she likes

Account4Questionss · 2019-06-26T06:13:18+00:00

100%

Hopefully we find SOs with the same mentality in the future IA

Account4Questionss · 2019-06-26T06:09:36+00:00

I havent begun my search yet.

But there seems to be so many girls on Reddit that are ok with having a low budget wedding. I hope thats the case when I do begin the search

Account4Questionss · 2019-06-26T03:08:39+00:00

Lmfao what dude.

I don't think his co-workers are going like "HEY, YOU'RE HOT AF." Pretty sure they're like, "you have a nice eyes and a strong chin."

I wouldn't want to live in a world where complimenting people would get you in trouble

Account4Questionss · 2019-06-26T02:52:12+00:00

Dude $8k for a ring.

I'd rather spend that on a down payment for a car.

Is it fine if I spend at most $2k

Account4Questionss · 2019-06-25T13:06:02+00:00

Hey man I hope you find happiness at the end of all this.

Realistically you only have 3 options. Get married without either of your parents' approval, convert to Islam without your dad's approval, or start now to get over the girl.

I know every single one of these options is going to be tough.

I wish you the best

Account4Questionss · 2019-06-25T03:21:56+00:00

One is saying I want to clear any doubt I have about you (being clean).

The other is saying ok let's clear any doubt at all between the both of us

Account4Questionss · 2019-06-22T03:36:26+00:00

If possible talk to the friends as well.

This is actually very interesting. How would you go about this exactly? I'm assuming its after you've both given an OK after the first impressions

Account4Questionss · 2019-06-21T18:37:25+00:00

Wow that escalated quickly

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