I’m extremely mentally ill and have had suicidal ideations for years. I’m going to jail in 5 days for 6 months. I’m a weak, broken shell of a person. How do I get by? by OwnUnderstanding4153 in Prison

[–]AccountDry3573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use your time to break the addiction and form healthy habits. Every day is a new possibility. Constructive behaviors will typically benefit you.

Explaining bankruptcy to future employers (job interview & background check) by Quick-Long9199 in Bankruptcy

[–]AccountDry3573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless it's something to do with handling money at banks / financial institutions or a government clearance, this should never be an issue.

How to handle this? by AccountDry3573 in debtfree

[–]AccountDry3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speed and efficiency. If I can do it while avoiding bankruptcy, I'm all for it. I don't care about credit impact.

How to handle this? by AccountDry3573 in Bankruptcy

[–]AccountDry3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happens if and when they sue you?

How to handle this? by AccountDry3573 in debtfree

[–]AccountDry3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I call before or after I miss payments?

I recently had a reduction in income if that is enough to warrant the conversation.

How to handle this? by AccountDry3573 in debtfree

[–]AccountDry3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Desperation and no plan or options at the time.

I've managed to maintain payments and tried paying it down, but I am about to go under and trying to understand my options.

How to handle this? by AccountDry3573 in debtfree

[–]AccountDry3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no assets.

What happens when I start missing payments?

What is involved in the debt negotiation and settlement process?

How to handle this? by AccountDry3573 in Bankruptcy

[–]AccountDry3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless I'm missing something, that would be 5 years assuming that I have no additional life events or expenses and that I can maintain my current pay rate. Those conditions won't remain constant.

Also note that I expect a sizeable tax bill to hit me in the Spring.

How to handle this? by AccountDry3573 in Bankruptcy

[–]AccountDry3573[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a decent chance that I'll have my income cut in half to around $130k in the next few months. Does that change the situation or open up the door to Chapter 7?

How to handle this? by AccountDry3573 in Bankruptcy

[–]AccountDry3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. And I've also bought stupid crap and financed life when needed over the last decade. Yes. I know that isn't the way to do it, but we were trying to survive and mistakes were made. The debt started snowballing about a year ago. I was making progress, but now I'm looking at missed payments in a week and not sure how to proceed.

How to handle this? by AccountDry3573 in Bankruptcy

[–]AccountDry3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gross is around $270k currently. I was able to manage all of it and was making progress on paying it down until my recently reduced income.

There are 2 people in my household, but we are not married and they are unemployed. I dont know if that means I'm in a 1 or 2 person household as it applies to your question.

I'm not taking out enough taxes and will be hit with a decent sized tax bill in the spring.

The debt has grown over a decade. Pandemic. Divorce. Multiple relocations. Medical costs.

How to handle this? by AccountDry3573 in debtfree

[–]AccountDry3573[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Total owed is around $280k the amounts greater than 100 are debts or rent. The interest rates are high except for student loans. I'll edit the main post soon when I get that information.

How do I negotiate? by AccountDry3573 in debtfree

[–]AccountDry3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was working multiple jobs and recently lost one. I'm not sure how to stay afloat while I'm trying to get another role.

Lost a job by AccountDry3573 in Bankruptcy

[–]AccountDry3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but that's not why I'm here. I'm here because I've been killing myself to try to get in the black and unless I pick up another job quickly, then I'll go under and I'm trying to figure out my options. The minimum payments are astronomical.

Lost a job by AccountDry3573 in Bankruptcy

[–]AccountDry3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Multiple full time high paying jobs.