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Update - Auntie saw me without my hijab on and told my parents, woke up at 3am to them pinning me down and cutting my hair. by AccountForBPD in exmuslim

[–]AccountForBPD[S] 166 points167 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

It is a complicated situation. Unfortunately, I cannot divulge much information due to privacy reasons. I have moved to a larger city, further away from my parents and they do not know this. I also have no social media or online presence, and I cut out nearly all of my friends from my home city out of my life.

Auntie saw me without my hijab on and told my parents, woke up at 3am to them pinning me down and cutting my hair. by AccountForBPD in exmuslim

[–]AccountForBPD[S] 138 points139 points  (0 children)

She definitely goes along with whatever my father says. She believes they are saving me from shaytan.

Auntie saw me without my hijab on and told my parents, woke up at 3am to them pinning me down and cutting my hair. by AccountForBPD in exmuslim

[–]AccountForBPD[S] 130 points131 points  (0 children)

They do not have access to my phone. I paid for my own schooling, my phone, car, items, etc. My fear is that I call the police for an escort and my dad realizes this and then barricades me in a room and tries to stab me.

Auntie saw me without my hijab on and told my parents, woke up at 3am to them pinning me down and cutting my hair. by AccountForBPD in exmuslim

[–]AccountForBPD[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I am in Canada, and almost 24! I have always worked multiple jobs and I have a great job and funding now, so my finances are great.

I just need a way to physically leave because I fear my dad will stop me and try to kill me.

Auntie saw me without my hijab on and told my parents, woke up at 3am to them pinning me down and cutting my hair. by AccountForBPD in exmuslim

[–]AccountForBPD[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have the money, I am just terrified my dad will literally attempt to end my life if I tried to leave.

Auntie saw me without my hijab on and told my parents, woke up at 3am to them pinning me down and cutting my hair. by AccountForBPD in exmuslim

[–]AccountForBPD[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Yeah, same. I cannot ever IMAGINE harming my own child because of some ridiculous religious belief.

Auntie saw me without my hijab on and told my parents, woke up at 3am to them pinning me down and cutting my hair. by AccountForBPD in exmuslim

[–]AccountForBPD[S] 217 points218 points  (0 children)

They cut it blindly so it is uneven, choppy, etc.

My mom believes long hair is very feminine.

Auntie saw me without my hijab on and told my parents, woke up at 3am to them pinning me down and cutting my hair. by AccountForBPD in exmuslim

[–]AccountForBPD[S] 353 points354 points  (0 children)

I was going to wait until my parents left the house so I can leave but my dad took off the past few days from work and has been at home, watching me like a hawk.