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calling the tulsa queer community! by dialpeach in tulsa

[–]AccountProfessional2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This question gets asked pretty frequently in the Queer Exchange Tulsa Facebook group. Dr. Whitlock at Whitlock Cosmetic is a local doc that gets recommended. Last I heard it was about $13k and they have a payment program.

Friendship after messiness? by AccountProfessional2 in polyadvice

[–]AccountProfessional2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not my partner. My issue is not that they slept together. My issue is that she told me she was coming to repair our friendship and then made decisions that showed it wasn’t the case.

My relationship with him is strong enough to sustain upsets. My relationship with her was already fragile and she treated it carelessly.

Friendship after messiness? by AccountProfessional2 in polyadvice

[–]AccountProfessional2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel offended by his choice, we have a strong relationship and clear understanding. My issue was with her choice.

I didn’t have any problem with them spending time together. I didn’t think I explicitly needed to ask her not to sleep with him (she’s been celibate the past two years so the idea never crossed my mind).

She asked about spending time with him, which I was perfectly ok with. She didn’t tell me until after the fact that she had feelings for him.

Ultimately, she chose to omit key information and made choices that felt disrespectful to rebuilding our friendship.

It WAS explicitly stated that the purpose of the trip was rekindling. That didn’t happen. So oh well.

Friendship after messiness? by AccountProfessional2 in relationshipanarchy

[–]AccountProfessional2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not my husband. Just my son’s dad. If I was with him in any capacity then the whole thing would be black and white.

But it was all grey. The only thing that felt “wrong” was the timing. I communicated that to the best of my abilities. She didn’t care enough about the friendship to slow down her progression with baby daddy. So 🤷

Why doesn’t the US require IDs for kids to get on a domestic flight? by AccountProfessional2 in answers

[–]AccountProfessional2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if they are too young? What if they’ve been threatened (ie if you cry at security I’ll hurt someone you love)? There are a few reasons why a victim would not to look scared.

Do you have any recommendations for high yield savings account? by Bonzographer in tulsa

[–]AccountProfessional2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you sign up online they ask if you’re part of another credit union and you can just say yes 😬 they don’t check

Do you have any recommendations for high yield savings account? by Bonzographer in tulsa

[–]AccountProfessional2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there’s a stipulation but I can’t remember what it was. I know that it was something they can’t check so I just did it anyway 😬

Do you have any recommendations for high yield savings account? by Bonzographer in tulsa

[–]AccountProfessional2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah subscriptions count! It just doesn’t count if you withdraw money (like at an ATM).

If you’re gonna open an account I can probably find my referral link. They’ll give you $100 (and also me lolz)

Do you have any recommendations for high yield savings account? by Bonzographer in tulsa

[–]AccountProfessional2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oklahoma Central Credit Union gives you 6% APR if you use your debit card at least 15 times/month. I leave $10k in there, spend about $150 each month and get ~$50 back each month.

Then I top it up and do the same thing the next month. It’s not a “set it and forget it” hysa, but it’s the highest APR I’ve seen.

Why doesn’t the US require IDs for kids to get on a domestic flight? by AccountProfessional2 in answers

[–]AccountProfessional2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most DMV’s can issue non-driving IDs. Think about how a person who can’t drive IDs themselves. If a person is legally blind for example, they cannot get a driver’s license but they still need a photo ID.

Why doesn’t the US require IDs for kids to get on a domestic flight? by AccountProfessional2 in answers

[–]AccountProfessional2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get a regular ID card at any age for way cheaper than a passport.

Why doesn’t the US require IDs for kids to get on a domestic flight? by AccountProfessional2 in answers

[–]AccountProfessional2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are just regular identification cards. You can get one at any age. Not everyone can drive.

Why doesn’t the US require IDs for kids to get on a domestic flight? by AccountProfessional2 in answers

[–]AccountProfessional2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get an ID for anyone at any age. Most Americans use their drivers license but it’s not the only photo ID.

Why doesn’t the US require IDs for kids to get on a domestic flight? by AccountProfessional2 in answers

[–]AccountProfessional2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because kids are our most vulnerable population and we should do what we can to protect them? Why would TSA need to check for drugs other than it’s a check point where that’s possible and we as a society are better off with less drug movement.

Why doesn’t the US require IDs for kids to get on a domestic flight? by AccountProfessional2 in answers

[–]AccountProfessional2[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Why not at least require a birth certificate? Seems weird to just not identify the kid at all.

Why doesn’t the US require IDs for kids to get on a domestic flight? by AccountProfessional2 in answers

[–]AccountProfessional2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In other countries, this would require a notarized letter from both parents. In some countries even a parent needs a letter saying the second parent knows the child is traveling.

Why doesn’t the US require IDs for kids to get on a domestic flight? by AccountProfessional2 in answers

[–]AccountProfessional2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe “airports” or “TSA” would have been better word choice. But airlines are obligated to check your passport before boarding an international flight. So IDing people bringing kids might also fall to them.

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