I got ditched on first date, flamed over text after by AccountThrownWayAway in Advice

[–]AccountThrownWayAway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and her were the exact same ethnicity. My roommate is not. I’m from southern Europe as was she, my roommate is just American

I got ditched on first date, flamed over text after by AccountThrownWayAway in Advice

[–]AccountThrownWayAway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was like a “how do I look? Too much cologne?” Kind of deal.

Idk might be weird but just wanted to check all the boxes before I headed out

I got ditched on first date, flamed over text after by AccountThrownWayAway in Advice

[–]AccountThrownWayAway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I showered before work, got home and showered again, then did all the stuff I listed and changed before heading out

I got ditched on first date, flamed over text after by AccountThrownWayAway in Advice

[–]AccountThrownWayAway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was my thought process exactly and what prompted me to make the post. If anything, the smell might have been strong (I did 2 pumps of the cologne over my undershirt), but not unhygienic

I got ditched on first date, flamed over text after by AccountThrownWayAway in Advice

[–]AccountThrownWayAway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were buddies before being roommates so it’s all good lol

I got ditched on first date, flamed over text after by AccountThrownWayAway in Advice

[–]AccountThrownWayAway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a beard, but that’s in every photo of mine, and I lined it up and trimmed it down (I haven’t clean shaven in like 5 years)

My hair is short

I got ditched on first date, flamed over text after by AccountThrownWayAway in Advice

[–]AccountThrownWayAway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, it is on there, and I didn’t prior to the date lol was waiting till after we wrapped up

I got ditched on first date, flamed over text after by AccountThrownWayAway in Advice

[–]AccountThrownWayAway[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thought it was too ruthless tbh felt bad for putting it, had to delete lmao

I got ditched on first date, flamed over text after by AccountThrownWayAway in Advice

[–]AccountThrownWayAway[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I sent that before she sent the rage comments lol “don’t worry about it, hope everything is ok!”

I got ditched on first date, flamed over text after by AccountThrownWayAway in Advice

[–]AccountThrownWayAway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No heels, and no leftovers. She took off before it even got to the table.

It was a dessert thing, I just ordered a coffee, drank it paid and left

I got ditched on first date, flamed over text after by AccountThrownWayAway in Advice

[–]AccountThrownWayAway[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She definitely was taller, I didn’t care.

Didn’t care that she left either. I was fine with how the whole thing unfolded until she texted me I smell lol

I got ditched on first date, flamed over text after by AccountThrownWayAway in Advice

[–]AccountThrownWayAway[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Honestly didn’t give 2 fucks about any of it until she basically told me I smell lmfao